05/01/2026
May is Better Speech and Hearing month. It's time to do a little information sharing. Let's start with language.
When a young child shows behaviour challenges or anxiety at school, it’s easy to assume they are being oppositional, inattentive, or “acting out.” But sometimes, the real struggle is hidden beneath the surface: language.
So many children with language challenges are misunderstood and their language challenges are missed.
Children with language difficulties may have trouble understanding directions, processing information quickly, expressing their thoughts, finding the right words, or keeping up with fast-paced conversations. When communication feels confusing or overwhelming, behaviour can become the child’s way of coping.
What may look like:• Avoidance• Shutdowns• Frustration or meltdowns• Withdrawal• “Not listening”• Acting silly or disruptive• Anxiety in group settings......may actually be a child trying to manage a world that feels hard to understand.
Language challenges are often invisible. A child may speak in full sentences and appear conversational, while still struggling to process language, follow complex instructions, understand social cues, or explain what they need.
Before we label behaviour, we should ask:
“What is this child trying to communicate?”“Could understanding or expressing language be part of the challenge?”“Is anxiety showing up because school feels harder than it looks?”
When we understand the connection between language, behaviour, and anxiety, we move from judgment to support — and that can change a child’s entire school experience.