10/17/2025
I tell my clients all the time: “Every contraction Is a Bridge!”
Every contraction is a bridge you must cross, and every time one builds, you face a choice.
You can welcome it, breathe through it, and remind yourself: you are okay, you are safe, and the right people are around you. You soften your face, drop your shoulders, release your jaw, let your pelvic floor relax and your cervix to melt open. You allow your body to do exactly what it was designed to do: to open, to stretch, to make way for your baby.
Or you can fight it.
You tense up, hold your breath, and let fear take the lead. You lose focus, you lose trust, and panic replaces peace.
Labour is a mind game.
It’s the constant decision to surrender instead of control.
To lean in instead of resist.
To trust instead of fear.
Because birth asks something sacred of you — it asks you to let go of who you’ve been, of your flesh and your fears, so that new life can come through.
Every contraction is a bridge — cross it with courage and faith knowing you are never alone. 💗