01/29/2026
When I was young, I regularly heard judgemental remarks about people wearing “loud” clothing, chunky jewelry, big hair or anything that made a real statement.
I remember hearing, “that’s too gawdy” or “who would wear something like that!?”
I was taught it was better to be put together & not drawing too much attention to yourself. And that coupled with many other experiences created a me that was so afraid to be seen because being seen meant being judged.
But I think my true self is bright & colourful! I think I’m louder & more boisterous than I let myself express. I want to take up more space & embrace myself fully. And that’s why, when I saw this fuchsia pink coat - I had to have it!
I choose to be me, to be loud, to be bright, to take up space & not shrink back - even if there’s judgement.
It’s a new life & I’m ready for it.
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