09/10/2023
WE’RE BACK! I hope you were able to find some beauty this summer and took some time to reconnect with yourself. 😌
For some, this time of year means busier schedules - whether it be kids’ activities, a busier work season, or maybe both! Regardless of how full someone’s schedule is, we must remind ourselves that we do not have any ownership over someone else’s time, and we can be mindful of how we communicate social inquiries. Just because someone has “free time” or no concrete plans on the weekend, does not necessarily mean they want to remedy that.
Asking someone if they are free on a certain date without also letting them know why you are asking, can bring on feelings of unnecessary pressure and stress, (and can even feel like a form of manipulation in some cases) to those on the receiving end.
I challenge you to really think about what brings you more peace and rejuvenation. For everyone, this looks different. Some need more connection and social interaction, while others require less, for example.
HOWEVER! Do not stop asking when it comes to relationships you value. Just because someone says no a time or two, does not mean they do not value your friendship as well. Connection is important, and in this busy season of life, helping each other make that connection by offering opportunities and a level of understanding can make a world of difference as we head into shorter days and colder months. ❤️