11/07/2025
A message from Jerry Letkeman, Executive Director
As has been pointed out in recent communications, loneliness, helplessness, and boredom are real enemies for seniors. These feelings aren’t just unpleasant - they can actually harm our health and happiness. Studies show that chronic loneliness is as bad for your health as smoking. Helplessness can make us feel like life is happening to us rather than with us. And boredom can drain our energy, leaving us stuck in a rut.
However, these challenges aren’t the end of the story. At Bethany, we believe that loneliness, helplessness, and boredom are not inevitable parts of aging - they are signals that we need connection, purpose, and a little spark of joy. When we take steps together to address these feelings, we open the door to a life that is healthier, happier, and more meaningful.
The heart of the solution is community. A caring, inclusive, and vibrant community helps each one of us, regardless of age or ability, to experience well-being. This kind of community doesn’t just “happen.” It’s built every day through small acts of kindness, shared laughter, and mutual respect.
Fall is a great season to think about this. The trees remind us that change is part of life, but they also put on a beautiful show before the winter. It’s a good reminder that there’s beauty and purpose in every stage of life - including right now. Whether you’re taking part in activities, volunteering, or simply sitting with a neighbour who needs company, you are helping to create the kind of community where everyone can thrive.
After all, well-being isn’t just about avoiding what hurts. It’s about leaning into what heals - friendship, purpose, and the gift of belonging. And that is something worth celebrating, in every season of life.