Sassy Spirit Junkie

02/26/2026

One thing I’ve learned in life is if someone wants to understand you, they will.

Sometimes we think if we just explain ourselves better, say it again, or add more details, people will finally understand us.

But the truth is… people usually heard you the first time.
When someone consistently ignores what you’ve already expressed, over-communicating stops being connection and starts becoming a form of seeking validation from someone who isn’t willing to give it.

Say what you mean.
Say it clearly.
And if someone keeps ignoring it, believe the message in their actions.
And respect yourself enough to stop over-explaining.

02/24/2026

Newest blog dropped ❤️

https://substack.com/

02/23/2026

You’ve done the shadow work, saged your soul and now you’re asking… uh… now what ?

Awakening was just the beginning and now the real fun starts.

If you’re reading this chances are you’ve had a dark night of the soul, hit rock bottom — and then fell further, have been gaslit by who you once were and the world around you and have lost touch with reality to the point of feeling clinically insane.. but you came back to the surface a friggin’ rock star ready to roll !

After awakening to your true self and the true world, where not everything that exists can be seen, you’re ready to set off on a fresh clean slate and attract all of the abundance your way. You have firm believe and faith that the universe has your back, it works with you, not against you. And you may have even seen this happen in real time ! It may have been losing a job just in time to find one that makes way more money and is way more aligned with who you are and where you see yourself going, it may have been finding your dream home that accommodates your family and their needs, it may have been receiving money when you needed it, it may have been friends or strangers showing up when you needed them the most… whatever experience you’ve had — get use to it !
Because it only continues and grows from here !

Back during awakening, seeing the good took effort.
It was work.
Now ?
It happens as naturally as breathing.
This positive mindset and being open to great opportunities has created a clear path here on out.

Will bad things still happen ? Yes, and no. Because you don’t see these situations like you have in the past, “bad” things aren’t happening to you, you now see that they are happening for you.. and baby, that’s what it’s all about !

I remember my first time really noticing my mind shift becoming natural, it was in December of 2023, and we could no longer afford to make payments on our truck, I was at work when my boyfriend told me it got repossessed and we no longer had it. I didn’t feel overwhelmed I didn’t freak out and cry, I simply said “that’s okay, we will figure it out” inside I couldn’t think of negatives to this situation, I just thought about how we’d save money not making monthly payments or having to fill the tank, I thought about how we would walk to places we needed to go and make it an adventure as a family out in the nature and fresh air.

Shortly after that announcement came another, just one week before Christmas my position at work came to an end and I was laid off due to not having enough funding to run my program. And again - I wasn’t upset, I didn’t freak out, I just thought about how everything would work out the way it was meant to and we would be okay. I’d find a job more aligned with where I wanted to be and in the meantime I’d be able to spend time with my family and work on my self care.

My boyfriend and I were calm cool and collected through it all.

And guess what ?

Everything worked out !
Just like it always does.

I got to spend more time with my kids, and more time on my own, I eventually got a job working for more money in the field I went to college for.

My eyes were open to the changes I had made, to see all the work I had put into conditioning my mind, body, and soul into seeing the good and receiving the good. And man… was that ever the best feeling !
I was out of the woods, out of the hole that I had been in for.. well for as long as I could remember.

I patched that bad boy of a hole up behind me and have been moving forward ever since, and honestly, great things just keep happening everytime I blink another new abundance finds its way to me. — And I’m sure if you’re reading this, it’s happening to you too !

So congratulations YOU DID IT !
and I am so proud of you for roughing through the hard work, reconditioning yourself, and becoming the version of yourself you always knew you were.

And this is just a portion of the amazing things and the amazing life after awakening…

Check out my Substack blog (https://substack.com/ ) as each week I dive into living life after awakening.

Until next time ❤️
Stay aligned,
stay high vibe,
and stay amplified !

02/23/2026

Everything changes after awakening, to my blog on (link in my bio) to learn more in depth why everything changes and follow my journey of life after ❤️

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02/22/2026

I've decided to start a blog on Life
AFTER awakening. There are sooo many books and influencers that talk about getting to and going through awakening... but what happens AFTER you've done all the work and hit all the dark nights of your soul?! That's what this blog is all about - the attermath ! subscribe to my channel on to
follow my journey as I go into the depths of life after awakening Check out my bio for the link !

https://substack.com/

10/25/2025

October is domestic violence awareness month. DV doesn’t discriminate it affects both women and men. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse
SPEAK UP 🗣️
Even if your voice is shaky, even if you’re scared, staying silent only enables the abuse.

10/19/2025

Let’s be real, every time you let someone lie to you and excuse it, you’re teaching your mind that dishonesty is something you can (and should) tolerate. And little by little, your nervous system starts to normalize that chaos. It gets easier to accept half-truths, easier to second-guess your own intuition, and harder to trust yourself.

But here’s the truth bomb 💣 Lies don’t just break trust they break peace. They chip away at your sense of safety and self-worth. You start walking on eggshells, doubting your own perception, and wondering if you’re “overreacting” or "insane"

You’re not overreacting, You're not insane. You’re responding to being disrespected.

Protecting your peace isn’t petty it’s deep work. Blocking someone who lies straight to your face isn’t immature it’s emotional self-defense. It’s choosing clarity over confusion, peace over manipulation, and self-respect over false promises.

So no, you’re not Rihanna. You don’t love the way they lie.
But you sure will love the way you glow when you finally stop entertaining what drains you.

10/19/2025

10/19/2025

Alright, let's have a real talk about what happens when you heal and evolve. Bad things don't just stop happening to you the balance of good and bad will always remain the same which means where there's bad there's equal parts good. And it's up to us to find and focus on the good. And you WILL hit a point where it comes naturally- you can lose you job, crash your car, lose all of the content you'ye spent 3 hours creating, not get paid on time, or/ and whatever else you can stick here that's negative... and still you keep a smile on your face and know that the universe has your back - and that things happen for you, not to you.
Ask me how ✌🏻

10/19/2025

It’s been a long hot minute since I popped up on your feed…
But I'm back and ready to get into it.
Who's still around, Who sees me ?
Say Heyy In the comments !

08/20/2025

There’s a Paradox of Support
If you’re the strong one the person who always figures it out and never seems to need help, people often assume you don’t need empathy. You look steady, so you’re left to carry your own storms in silence.

If you’re the one who constantly struggles, who leans on others for every challenge, at first you may receive empathy… but over time, people start to see you as needy or draining. Support slowly fades too.

The truth I’ve realized is that both extremes can end up receiving less care not because people don’t love you.
But because of how human psychology works. The strong one is overlooked. The struggler is dismissed.

But the ones who truly love you they see beyond appearances. They know strength doesn’t mean you’re invincible. They know struggle doesn’t make you unworthy. Their empathy isn’t conditional it’s rooted in connection.

Psychology calls this “compassion fatigue” and “role expectations.”
Spirit calls this a reminder that we’re not meant to perform strength or weakness, but to live authentically.

The balance lies in allowing yourself to be seen, not just as strong, not just as struggling, but as human.
That’s where real empathy flows.