02/26/2026
How do you support your teenager's journey of self-discovery (without them pushing you away)?
1. Spark their curiosity.
Notice what excites your teen, what drains their energy, and who they feel most comfortable around. Encourage them to lean into the spaces where they can express themselves fully.
2. Tune into their values.
Pay attention to the qualities your teen admires in themselves and others. What seems most important to them right now?
3. Nurture experimentation.
Support your teen in trying new hobbies, sports, or community activities. Taking on challenges helps them discover their strengths and interests and find new friends.
4. Notice the "different hats" they wear.
Teens often try on different roles depending on who they are with. Notice when they might be conforming to expectations versus acting authentically, and reflect together on what it feels like to be themselves.
5. Inspire self-compassion.
Remind your teen that they don't need all the answers right away. It's normal to change interests or opinions, and it takes courage to explore different ways of being!