01/14/2026
If you’re a first time mom this is for you! 👇
First make sure to follow and share this with your partner!
When it comes to labor - we want everything focused on ✨oxytocin✨
Meaning- staying home where our bodies are used to relaxing, resting, remaining calm. Home helps our bodies get into a great rhythm with little to no interruptions!
A good time to head toward the hospital is when contracts are ✨3-4 minutes apart✨ lasting a ✨full 60 seconds✨ and that has been going on for at least ✨an hour✨
This allows us to show up at the hospital and ideally labour won’t slow down.
As soon as we show up at the hospital - we want to drown out everything. Our partner can answer the questions. We are going to have our headphones in the music turned up and we are going to just be going through the contractions.
Then, as soon as we are getting into a room- we are dimming the lights, setting up the new lights, turning on the shower, and turning the music on so we can set the vibe to be cozy- why?
✨Oxytocin!✨
Oxytocin flows best when we feel safe, when our body is calm and not tense- so by doing these things we are encouraging our body to continue- not interrupting with bright lights and loud beeping machines.
Hospital births can absolutely be dreamy and empowering! Setting up the space is just the start of this journey of encouraging calm, peacefulness, and safety!
Did you have a hospital birth that you loved? What would you add to this for a first time mama? Let us know in the comments! 👇
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