02/19/2016
This is a great blog written by my coach. I definitely think fear is responsible for a lot of things in my life. It took me years to muster the strength to leave my unhappy marriage. My husband wasn't a bad guy. He just wasn't bringing it to the table, he was absent, emotionally and literally from our lives. I wanted more than I was getting so I made a change.
I have fears about my business as well. This is my third business I have had -going into my sixth year now (my daycare was six years and my gift basket business was 5 years). Although I don't need stock or space at home to be a Professional Organizer, what I do need is for people to know I am around. I need friends and clients to refer me. I need money to pay for advertising. I need to start blogging to be seen more on the web. Whenever I talk to a person older then me, inevitably they tell me, oh I had to help my parent downsize or I had to clear my parent(s) estate and it was brutal. I so would have used a service like yours if I knew about it. People need my services and as the population ages, my business will grow. I have to believe in myself and that if nothing else.
So why do I get fearful when I have a slow month? Why am I afraid to go to the places where seniors are and advertise?
I realized a few years ago that I had a I'm not good enough mentality built into my psyche. I am aware of that. I can get over it. I have a very supportive boyfriend and friends and colleagues which help me to realize that I am good enough. So now I just have to make that belief a reality to ME.
Same with healthy eating and exercise. I started last year and was on a good road -lost 20 lbs, started to get stronger. But it was hard doing it on my own. It was hard to believe that I was worth it. I knew I had to do it for my daughters and for my health but forgot my reason for doing it for ME. When I met my boyfriend in September I was so happy and he was fine w me the way I was so why bother changing?
I am now on my way to being the healthiest I have been my adult life. I know the strength is in me. I have the power to change. I am not doing this for my loved ones. I now have an amazing accountability coach and group. I am changing for ME and my wellbeing and with my newfound strength I know that myself, my business and my daughters will prosper. 💟
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