02/03/2026
“Their mouth is too small for my ni**le!”
“They won’t open wide!”
“The latch is always shallow and painful.”
“My baby won’t stay on the breast and constantly pops off during a feed.”
“It seems like my baby is just sleepy at the breast, but then begins to root as soon as I unlatch them.”
These are common things I hear in my practice, as well as with patients in the hospital. And while certain cases there may be size discrepancies and issues with latching because of this, often I see baby’s are not in the most optimal position before latching onto the breast, making it seem like they are unable too.
In order to drink from a cup, we must lift our glasses and tilt our heads back. This allows us to drink properly, without spilling down our shirts, or drinking uncomfortably. For an infant, the same rings true, except your breast is the cup. They must be able to use their full range of motion for their head/neck/jaw/shoulders in order to latch on effectively and drink from the breast. Try adjusting their position so that they start a little further back from the ni**le- as weird as this may seem! Think of your ni**le as the target not the starting line.
There are also instances where it is more than just positioning, and help should be sought out from an LC. If your latch is uncomfortable, painful, there is ni**le damage, your infant is requiring constant top ups, they seem to feed 24/7 without any contentment, are sleepy/not feeding effectively, please seek out help. P.S- I am in no way a Picasso, don’t mind my drawings. 👩🏻🎨