03/22/2026
Currently reading đ
How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera.
One thing I appreciate about this book is how it explains something many people experience in therapy: our patterns didnât appear out of nowhere. They were learned, often as ways to survive, adapt, and belong.
The work of healing isnât about blaming the past, itâs about understanding it. When we recognize the patterns our nervous system learned early on, we gain the ability to choose something different.
Thatâs the real âwork.â
Not perfection.
Not fixing yourself.
Awareness, compassion, and small choices that move you toward the life you want to live.