01/01/2026
Fck dogma. Do whatever you want.
There’s stages and layers to awakening.
And one that not a lot of people talk about, is the part where you realize how much dogma and rigidity is in the spiritual community.
‘That’s not conscious’
‘You’re participating in a spell’
‘You’re lowering your frequency’
Personally?
I’ve tried to be the perfect high vibe aligned spiritual person (what does that even mean 😂).
And it was fkn EXHAUSTING 😮💨
I felt isolated from everyone around me because my standards for being ‘high vibrational’ were so high and unrealistic in this society.
I stopped listening to music I loved, out of fear of being brainwashed.
I only wore cotton clothes.
Checked every label and obsessed over my baby’s food.
Felt paralyzed by the most basic decisions because I felt like I had to analyze every little thing I did, ate, or participated in.
My nervous system was fried. I felt more alone than ever.
Now?
I practice ‘modern priestesshood’ for a lack of better words. I weave my spirituality, wisdom and preferences into my reality in a way that feels sustainable.
I choose my battles. And in some seasons, like solo motherhood, I leaned into the paths of least resistance. Even if it meant I was doing s**t that was ‘less conscious.’
Being awake and connected is not about being perfect. That is what we call dogma. It’s why so many people leave religion.. unrelenting, unrealistic standards.
It’s about doing what works for you.
You can still be a leader and visionary while eating pizza and listening to gangster rap. If that’s your thing haha.
This world doesn’t need perfect, obsessive leaders. It needs real people who shift the world from within it. Through subtle shifts and authentic ways of being.
There are many joys in the matrix. Joys that are built on illusion, capitalism and low vibrations.
I’m not saying we should lose sight of elevating consciousness and living in truly aligned ways.
I’m saying, being obsessed about being perfect is also lowering your vibration. Trust me, I experienced it first hand.
Make your own rules; do whatever the fck makes you happy and aligned, without being pressured by spiritual gurus
Love you,
T 🤍✨