01/23/2026
Most couples think a strong relationship means you never fight.
But the couples who last are the ones who know how to repair after a rupture.
Repair is not a perfect apology.
Repair is a pattern you practice.
Here are a few examples of what repair can sound like:
I got defensive and I see how that hurt you
I’m sorry, I want to do better
Can we try again and talk about what we both need right now?
If this feels hard, you’re not broken.
Most of us were never taught how to come back after conflict.
Therapy can help you slow things down, understand your triggers, and rebuild safety in the relationship.