01/21/2026
✨ A lesson I learned over 24 years of side hustles, soul work, and self-trust
I’ve been a “side-hustle girl” since I was about 16.
Mary Kay.
Pampered Chef.
MLMs.
Little businesses.
Creative projects.
Ideas that lit me up at 2 a.m.
If there’s a way to create income, I’ve probably explored it at some point.
And here’s what almost 24 years of doing that has taught me:
👉 The things that work best are the things that speak for themselves.
Take Pampered Chef as a simple example.
Are the products expensive? Yes.
Do they last? Yes.
Do people trust them? Absolutely.
When the value is already felt, you don’t have to convince anyone.
You don’t have to push.
You don’t have to manipulate.
You don’t need the perfect sales pitch.
The sale becomes easy because the value is obvious.
To this day, my kitchen is still full of Pampered Chef products—not because I’m loyal to a company, but because I’m loyal to value that delivers.
💫 My business has changed, but this principle hasn’t.
Today, the “product” I stand behind is different.
It’s not cookware.
It’s consciousness.
It’s intuition.
It’s spirituality grounded in lived experience, science, and deep listening.
When you lean into spirituality—not bypassing reality, but listening deeply—you begin to see its value everywhere:
• Hard things feel more supported
• You stop feeling alone
• You recognize the ancestors, guides, and wisdom standing behind you
• You trust your intuitive nature more
And the more you trust it…
The more others feel it.
You don’t have to be loud.
You don’t have to be salesy.
You don’t have to sparkle harder than everyone else in the room.
✨ You just get to exist in your truth.
This was a hard lesson for me when I first stepped into my work as a medium and intuitive. I was so excited. I wanted everyone to see it. To feel it. To understand it.
What I learned over time is this:
Everything is an energy exchange.
People only truly receive what they value.
And the more someone invests—emotionally, energetically, consciously—the more they receive in return.
That shift changed everything.
Not just my work…
But my relationships.
My boundaries.
My peace.
Because when people truly see your value, it gets easy.
No pushing.
No pulling.
No proving.
You don’t have to be the shiny crystal in the room.
You simply get to be.
🌱 So let me ask you:
• What are you forcing to fit?
• Who are you trying to convince of your worth?
• Where are you over-explaining, over-giving, or shrinking to be accepted?
Every single one of us has gifts we are naturally good at.
When you step into those, the right people recognize the value instantly.
And if you find yourself in spaces where:
– you have to prove yourself
– your worth feels questioned
– your value feels discounted
It’s okay to let them go.
They’re not your people.
They’re not in alignment with you.
And they’re not meant to pay the energetic cost of what you offer.
✨ Stop forcing yourself to be in rooms where people want you to change.
Choose the rooms where people see you as the one who creates change.
Let that sink in. 🌿
