11/29/2025
There are mornings I wake up and feel like I’m already behind.
There are evenings where I count down the seconds to bedtime.
There are days I crave space so badly it physically aches.
I love my kids. Fiercely.
But I don’t love every moment of motherhood.
And I wish someone had told me that that was allowed.
The pressure to enjoy it all is so loud—especially when you’ve waited, hoped, or struggled to get here.
But love and resentment can coexist.
Gratitude and grief can share space.
Exhaustion doesn’t cancel out love.
As a therapist and a mom, I want to say this clearly:
You can feel overwhelmed, frustrated, disconnected—and still be a good, caring, present parent.
Let’s normalize the full emotional range of parenthood. Not just the highlight reel.