04/29/2020
To sleep train or not during a pandemic?
As psychologists who specialize in mental health and sleep, we are often asked whether to sleep train now or wait until after the pandemic is over. While we are all doing a lot of juggling right now and sleep training may not be something you want to add to the list, this may actually be the best time to sleep train. Here are a few of the reasons why:
1. Due to physical distancing requirements, most of us have flexibility in our schedules. Developing a schedule that is most conducive to your child’s sleep is one of the primary goals of sleep training. During the initial weeks of training, we need to be the most adherent to this schedule in order to get the child’s sleep on track, and this may include a temporary early bedtime. This can be a challenge for families when they are busy with work, activities, and social plans. However, since most of us are currently stuck in the house because of the pandemic, this creates a great opportunity for sleep training because we are better able to follow sleep schedules and meet those early bedtimes. Once a child is trained and sleeping better overall, these bedtimes can often be moved later, which will make life easier once physical distancing guidelines are loosened and we are able to leave the house again.
2. Routine is very important for all of us during these stressful times. Our routines have all changed and most people are settling into their new “normal” at home. Routines are helpful for both adults, kids, and babies as they provide structure to our day! This is a great time to focus on developing bedtime routines and setting solid bedtime boundaries. A well-rested child (and parent) will feel and function better throughout the day, which will also be helpful for coping with all of the uncertainty we are experiencing during this stressful time.
3. “Me” time. Most parents have limited “Me” time right now between juggling the kids, home schooling, work, and housekeeping demands. Naps allow for a necessary break to get some work done, spend time with other children in the home, or to recharge and de-stress. Similarly, stress-free bedtimes will give parents their evenings back, which can be used to catch up on work, clean, exercise, relax, watch Netflix, etc. This is vital for mental health as most of us have lost our “village” during this time, whether that be a nanny, childcare/school, and/or family support, and as a result, have taken on a lot of extra work.
For all these reasons, we believe that this is a great time to focus on your child’s sleep, and we are here to help you through this process. Feel free to reach out with questions about your own sleep or the sleep of your little ones!