Calm Mind Centre

01/17/2026

Motivation doesn’t cause effort, effort causes motivation. If you start with a small task your brain releases dopamine which will fuel motivation to continue onto more challenging or undesirable tasks!

01/16/2026

01/16/2026

Think of anxiety and depression as time travelling thoughts and you need to take control of that machine to get it to the present moment and live in peace ☮️ 🫶🏼

01/16/2026

Quick and simple reframing formula using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
1 notice it
2 question it
3 replace it
4 take action

It takes practice to make it a habit and time to rewire your thought patterns but with the correct support and belief in yourself you can take it one step at a time to challenge and change your thought patterns and make your life better 🫶🏼

01/16/2026

Boundaries vs Ultimatums

01/16/2026

10 Common Negative Thinking Patterns and How You Can Change Them
https://buff.ly/6G3EBbt

🧠 Negative self-talk often becomes a habitual brain pattern
🔁 These thought patterns can fuel anxiety and depression, keep your stress response activated, and shape your brain.
✨ You’re not stuck with them
🧠 When you recognize negative thinking patterns, stop automatically believing them, and turn them around, your brain begins to change.
🚦 You can put your mind to work FOR you instead of against you.

This article explains 10 common negative thinking patterns—and how to change them using brain-based strategies.

01/16/2026

It’s a snow day today so don’t mind the constant pause for background noise 😅 Winter and spring place very different demands on living systems, including humans.

In winter, resources are historically scarce:
• Less sunlight → lower vitamin D and serotonin → reduced energy and motivation
• Cold temperatures → higher energy cost just to stay warm
• Shorter days → circadian rhythms shift toward sleep and conservation

Humans don't hibernate, but our bodies still register winter as a time to maintain rather than expand.

Biologically, spring signals that it's safe to spend energy again.

Routine is cognitively cheap. When energy is lower (as it often is in winter), the brain prefers:
• Familiar habits
• Predictable schedules
• Fewer novel decisions
Novelty and change require more mental energy and carry more risk. In spring, improved mood and alertness make:
• Exploration feel rewarding
• Risk feel manageable
• Planning and imagination more accessible
This is why people naturally feel more creative and optimistic in spring.

For most of human history:
• Winter was about survival
• Spring was about opportunity

Even with artificial light and climate control:
• Seasonal mood shifts (including SAD) remain common
• Productivity cycles still peak in spring and early fall
• Burnout risk increases when we ignore winter's need for maintenance
Working with these cycles often leads to:
• Better follow-through on spring projects
• Less guilt during winter slowdowns
• More sustainable creativity

Follow for more tips on how to work with yourself rather than against yourself!

01/11/2026

New Year’s resolutions aren’t “bad” and don’t “stop”, just come back to learn more because we’ve been taught how to do this all wrong!
Winter is a time for rest, protection, slow moving, energy storing and the pressure to follow this whole “new year new me” thing can be draining and daunting and produce opposite results. Come back for part two to learn more about how to go about creating a “new you” or a big change this year! 😍

12/23/2025

Day 22 - body scan.
Take a moment in this busy holiday season to check in with yourself and your body.
A body scan meditation offers numerous mental and physical health benefits, primarily by fostering a strong mind-body connection and activating the body's natural relaxation response.

Mental Health Benefits

Reduced Stress and Anxiety: By shifting focus away from racing thoughts to physical sensations, body scan meditation helps ground you in the present moment, which can significantly lower stress and anxiety levels.

Improved Emotional Regulation: Heightened awareness of how emotions manifest physically (e.g., a tight jaw or tense shoulders) helps you recognize and respond to feelings in a healthier, less reactive way.

Increased Self-Awareness and Self-Compassion: The practice encourages a non-judgmental observation of your internal state, which builds self-awareness and a more compassionate relationship with yourself.

Enhanced Focus and Attention: Regularly practicing body scans trains the mind to concentrate, which can lead to improved focus and productivity in daily life.

Support for Trauma Recovery: It can be a gentle way for individuals to safely reconnect with their physical self, which can be beneficial when processing trauma that may be "stored" in the body.

Physical Health Benefits

Activates the Parasympathetic Nervous System: The practice helps shift the body from the "fight or flight" (sympathetic) mode to the "rest and digest" (parasympathetic) state, promoting a deep sense of calm.
Better Sleep Quality: By promoting deep relaxation and helping to quiet racing thoughts, body scan meditation can make it easier to fall asleep and improve overall sleep quality.

Pain Management: It helps change your relationship with pain by encouraging the observation of sensations without judgment. This can reduce the emotional distress associated with chronic pain, even if the pain itself doesn't disappear.

Reduced Physical Tension: The process of systematically scanning the body allows you to identify and release areas of muscle tightness you may not have been aware of, such as in the shoulders, back, or jaw.

Lowered Physiological Markers of Stress: Research indicates that regular practice can lead to measurable physiological changes, including lower blood pressure and reduced levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

12/22/2025

Day 21- share your true feelings!!

Sharing your true feelings, whether with yourself or others, significantly benefits mental health by fostering authenticity, improving relationships, promoting emotional regulation, and reducing internal stress

Sharing with Others
Reduces Isolation and Fosters Connection: Expressing vulnerability helps you feel understood and accepted, strengthening bonds with others and counteracting feelings of loneliness or isolation

Encourages Support: When people know what you are truly feeling, they are better equipped to offer appropriate support, advice, or assistance, which can be crucial during difficult times

Provides New Perspectives: Talking through problems allows others to offer different viewpoints or solutions you might not have considered on your own, aiding problem-solving

Validates Emotions: Having your feelings acknowledged by someone else can validate your experience, making you feel normal and sane, which reduces self-doubt and anxiety

Sharing with Ourselves (Self-Reflection)
Promotes Self-Awareness: Acknowledging your own true feelings is the first step toward understanding what triggers you, what you need, and what makes you happy or distressed This awareness is fundamental to personal growth.

Facilitates Emotional Processing: Allowing yourself to feel emotions fully, rather than suppressing them, helps in processing and moving through them in a healthy manner Suppression often leads to emotions festering and potentially manifesting as physical symptoms or mental distress.

Enables Healthy Coping: By recognizing what you feel, you can choose appropriate and effective coping mechanisms —-For example, if you acknowledge you are stressed, you can actively practice relaxation techniques or seek rest, rather than engaging in unhealthy avoidance behaviors.

Builds Self-Trust: Honoring your internal experience builds a sense of integrity and trust within yourself, reinforcing that your feelings matter and are valid.

In essence, authentic emotional expression, both internally and interpersonally, moves you away from the stress of maintaining a false self and toward a more integrated, resilient, and connected way of living

12/22/2025

For day 20 spend at least 15 minutes connecting with nature (and loved ones)!
Spending time in nature significantly boosts mental health by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression, while improving mood, focus, creativity, and sleep through physiological calming effects like lower cortisol levels, restoring attention, and fostering feelings of peace, vitality, and connection to something larger than oneself, making it a powerful tool for overall well-being and resilience. Even brief, regular doses of green space, like a couple of hours a week, are linked to better health outcomes, with benefits extending to improved cognitive function and increased prosocial behaviour.

Stress & Anxiety Reduction: Lowers the stress hormone cortisol, blood pressure, and heart rate, leading to feelings of calm and relaxation.
Mood Enhancement: Reduces symptoms of depression and sadness, increases happiness, energy, and feelings of vitality.
Improved Cognition: Restores attention, improves concentration, memory, and impulse control, and boosts creativity.
Better Sleep: Natural light exposure helps regulate sleep cycles, leading to better sleep quality.
Emotional Regulation: Decreases irritability and helps people feel calmer and more in control.
Sense of Awe & Connection: Fosters a feeling of being part of a larger whole, which can promote generosity and reduce self-focus.

The science behind it
At tention Restoration Theory: Nature's gentle, fascinating stimuli allow directed attention fatigue to recover.

Physiological Changes: Exposure triggers positive changes in stress hormones (cortisol) and brain chemistry (dopamine).

Sensory Immersion: Natural environments offer calming sensory experiences that soothe the mind, contrasting with digital noise

Practical Ways to Connect with Nature
Walks in Parks: Just 20 minutes, three times a week, can yield benefits.
Outdoor skating, tobogganing, snowman building, etc.
Forest Bathing (Shinrin-yoku): Immersing yourself in a forest environment.
Gardening/Home Gardens: Even small green spaces can provide benefits.
Mindful Observation: Intentionally noticing nature around you, even in urban settings, enhances connection.

12/22/2025

Day 19! Make or buy something comforting!

Fave snacks,
Comfy sweater,
Comfy blanket,
Childhood dinner,
Etc.
Make or buy something that brings you joy and comfort during this busy busy season!