Close Connections

About David Feder & Close Connections

I founded Close Connections seventeen years ago because I believed that people needed a professional who understood what those who experienced infidelity were going through. I decided to specialize in helping people recover from an affair and to give people like you what they needed: a road map that provided them with a structure to follow during the darkest time in their life. I realized that after finding out that their partner had an affair, people were in a free-fall heading nowhere.

I believed that after an affair, far too many people were ending their committed relationship because they didn’t know what else to do. They just didn’t know how to recover because, after all, haven’t we all bought into the falsehood that marriages last forever? So I decided to create a roadmap that in most cases lead to recovery and not divorce.

I also believed that regardless of whether people stayed together or not after an affair, it was imperative that couples reduced the animosity that the discovery of an affair creates between spouses. Spouses who are either loving or tolerant of one another often become warring partners after an affair, and this hurts children. So I decided to provide a program of recovery that reduces the animosity between spouses for the sake of the children. Studies have proven that children from broken homes do more poorly if the animosity between their parents continues after separation. I dedicated myself to reduce those toxic emotions for the sake of the children and for their hurting parents.

At Close Connections we are passionate about helping people recover from infidelity. Everyone will recover from infidelity – you have no choice – the question is HOW? We recognize that not everyone will want to stay together after an affair, but my VISION model gives people the structure they need to make a choice that is right for them.

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