03/23/2026
I almost forgot what has me thinking about menopause in the first place.
It was feeling sad that women are taught to not feed themselves during a time when it is particularly vital to our ability to thrive.
Paying attention to your nutrition and making sure you are supporting your body with sufficient calories during this transition is incredibly helpful. This is technically low hanging fruit.
But unfortunately as women, we have generally been taught to believe the opposite about how to feed ourselves and be "healthy". We are taught to undereat.
And so what does a woman who is in her 40's and gaining belly fat do?
Reduce calories of course!
It not only makes sense but is literally what we have been taught.
That it's righteous to be that way even.
This puts a strain on our bodies. Stress. Combined with the stress of not understanding what's going on. It gets layered.
Different women deal with different symptoms, it's all very individual.
But I'm here to remind you that no matter what, it's important to eat!
Inform yourself and talk to your doctor about what has been actually shown to improve menopause symptoms. And when they tell you it's lifestyle changes, come back here!
Your body technically wants you to be healthy and feel well. I promise the road ahead can actually be a good time.