11/14/2025
I don’t understand this new trend of banning sleepovers.
Like… some of my best childhood memories came from sleepovers.
Little girls need those nights where they whisper secrets under blankets, do their nails at 2AM & laugh until their stomach hurts.. ✨💅🏻💖
The boys had their video game marathons, Dorito fingers, wrestling on the floor & pretending they weren’t scared of the basement… 🤼🎮💙
I still remember this night when me & my two besties camped in my yard.
We had our little tent, blankets galore, an air mattress, snacks, the TV/VCR combo strung with the extension cord to the house, our flashlights… 🏕️🍬🔦
A tiny kitten wandered into our tent & curled up with us for a couple hours like we were its family.
It felt magical, like the universe tucked us in… 🐈⬛✨
But it wasn’t just camping.
It was the silly stuff too..
Like the night with one friend, when we watched Finding Nemo & had to keep it a secret so we didn’t ruin her birthday sleepover theme the next weekend.. 🐠
We were sworn to silence like nine year old FBI agents! 🥸💼🤣
That’s what sleepovers give kids
Magic ✨
Trust 🤍
Friendship 👯♀️
Memories that soften your whole life. 🥹
Protect your kids yes
Use judgement yes
But taking away sleepovers completely… it just feels cruel. Childhood deserves softness. Childhood deserves freedom. Childhood deserves tents in the yard & tiny kittens who choose your lap! 🥺
I couldn’t take that away from my future kids..
Not when I know how much those nights shaped me, & the friendships I still have today. 💞