02/14/2026
As a mental health counsellor it is important to acknowledge the tragedy in BC with the school shooting in Tumbler Ridge. It has taken me a few days to post because despite being a Mental Health Counsellor, I am a mother first.
On a personal level as a parent it is hard to acknowledge what happened because it forces me to contemplate the unthinkable - dropping children off at school and never seeing them again.
As a mother it is incomprehensible to consider, and despite my two decades of working with children and families in healthcare, I feel myself self-protect whenever I let my mind go there. It is truly an incomprehensible place to dwell in such a visceral response and it feels intolerable.
What is important to acknowledge and dwell in is the profound lack of mental health access in rural communities. As Maya Gebala's mother said, "it isn't about transgenderism, it isn't about guns, it isn't about single parent homes, it is about a lack of mental health access"
The reality is that the mother of the child shooter who was shot dead was an amazing mother of 5 children. One of her children struggled immensely with their mental health and there are little to no health resources in rural communities. There is no money, no access, and no consistent support.
On several occasions this mother and others have driven 150-1200 km to try and get mental health help. This mother called police, she was doing her best with what she had and there was no help that was effective.
I feel sad for the parents who lost their children, I feel sad for the children who lost their lives, I feel sad for the community, I feel sad for the mother of the shooter, and I feel sad for the child who struggled so badly with their mental health that they shot people.
What happened in Tumbler Ridge is the definition of tragedy.
I hope very much that those who have survived are able to recover to a functional capacity. As we say in healthcare, there are outcomes worse than death and I really hope those surviving children fighting for their lives in hospital aren't given lives that are incompatible with a reasonable life.
If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out to us at threesisterscounselling.com at 778-222-7778. We offer online and in-person counselling to people in all areas of BC.
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