02/10/2026
Dating has never been harder and you’re not alone.
Between mixed signals, emotional unavailability, endless swiping, and people who say they want connection but disappear the moment it gets real… it’s exhausting. Most people aren’t broken, they’re just stuck in patterns they were never taught how to recognize or change.
This is exactly why I created Self-Initiated.
Not to teach you how to chase, convince, or “perform” for love but to help you become so grounded in yourself that the chaos stops feeling normal.
Inside Self-Initiated, the shift is internal first. You learn how to regulate your nervous system, understand your attachment patterns, rebuild self-trust, and stop outsourcing your worth to someone else’s attention or approval. When that happens, your standards rise naturally. Your boundaries become clear. You stop overgiving, overthinking, and settling for breadcrumbs.
And here’s the real transformation. You don’t just date differently, you choose differently. You attract healthier dynamics because you’re no longer operating from fear, scarcity, or old wounds. You become secure, self led, and calm in your body, not anxious or shut down.
Self-Initiated is for people who feel deeply, love hard, and are done repeating the same relationship cycles. For the ones who are self aware, emotionally intelligent, and ready to stop blaming the dating world and start becoming the safest place they’ve ever lived.
If you’re tired of chasing emotionally unavailable people and ready to become secure, confident, and rooted in your worth, comment INITIATE and I’ll send you the details.
