01/23/2026
When I stepped into one of the most senior negotiation roles, my predecessor looked at me and said:
“I hope you have a wife at home.”
It wasn’t encouragement.
It was a reminder of what people assume about women in leadership:
that you can’t do this level of work and have a life… unless someone else is carrying the invisible load.
That moment stayed with me.
And it’s part of why I wrote my first Substack article—about invisible labour, leadership, and what we’re really holding behind the scenes.
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