03/11/2026
Softness alone was never the whole story.
For a long time in my own healing journey, I believed that being a spiritual, soft, open-hearted woman meant learning how to constantly forgive, stay regulated and calm all the time.
I would gaslight myself, bypass and analyze my emotions and skip to forgiveness too early for others.
What I didn’t realize then was that another part of me was waiting to be reclaimed.
The instinctual part.
The part of a woman that knows when something is true… and when something isn’t.
For me, that awakening began 9 years ago when I experienced my first sacred rage ceremony with my mentor.
I realized I was leaving a whole part of my instinctual, primal knowing on the table in the name of love and light and a false spiritual identity.
That moment changed the way I understood feminine healing forever.
Because the feminine is not only the Butterfly.
She is also the Jaguar.
Both live in the body of a woman.
The Butterfly opens us.
The Jaguar protects what is sacred.
Over the years this has become a central part of the work I guide women through.
Women learning to soften… and also trust their instinct.
Women remembering how to stay connected to their truth even when it’s uncomfortable.
Women learning to expand their capacity and their nervous system to feel a myriad of emotions, including grief and rage, and stay connected and present through that wave.
This moment is often a portal of rebirth for women and a deep remembrance of their ancestral power. It is a journey from the maiden to the matriarch.
This is the work we’ll be exploring together inside the Butterfly & the Jaguar Online Journey beginning April 8.
If you feel the call to walk with these energies, send me 🦋🐆 🦋and I’ll share the details.
In devotion,
Abneet
