02/20/2026
Doctors miss this every time 👀❗
Last week, a woman asked me:
“Why didn’t my doctor ever tell me this?” 🤔💭
She wasn’t angry.
Just confused 😕,
frustrated 😣,
and a little skeptical 🤨
I hear this question all the time 🔁
Whether in my clinic 🏥 or inside my private program, The Bladder Confidence Solution, women eventually ask:
“Shouldn’t someone have explained this to me already?” 💬
Instead, many end up on
YouTube 📺,
Google 🔍,
buying gadgets 🛍️,
or trying another supplement or medication 💊
Here’s what shocks them ⚡
Bladder leaks, urgency, frequency, and night p*eing aren’t just about weak pelvic floor muscles 🚫
You don’t need:
• An uncomfortable internal exam 😣
• A pricey Kegel chair 💺💸
• To accept medication side effects as your only option ❌
What most women are told about the root cause is WRONG ❗
You MUST address:
🧠 The nervous system – urgency isn’t just bladder. Your brain can send false alarm signals 🚨
💪 The body – hips, spine, breath, abdominal pressure, even your feet 👣 (“guilty until proven innocent” 😉)
⚡ Pelvic floor dysfunction patterns – tight, lopsided, or misfiring muscles act weak
🔥 Bladder sensitivity – irritants, pressure management, inflammation, habitual straining
📝 Hidden habits – small behaviors that train your bladder to react more over time ⏳
Family doctors are generalists 👨⚕️👩⚕️
Urologists and urogynecologists focus on procedures and surgery 🏥🔧
They care ❤️
They just aren’t trained in this layer of bladder health 🧩
You aren’t broken 💛✨
You’ve likely just never been shown how all the pieces connect 🧩💡
If this made you rethink what you’ve been told, hit reply 💬 and share what advice didn’t work for you 👀