12/29/2025
New Year’s Resolution: Embracing Life FOMO
Research shows that in end-of-life reflections, people often regret missed relationships, experiences, and authenticity far more than they do missed professional or financial achievements. While meaningful work can bring pride, the regrets typically focus on time, presence, and connection rather than mere productivity or accumulation.
As we enter a new year, it's important to consider the question: Should Life FOMO—fear of missing out on life itself—be encouraged?
This perspective goes beyond the superficial, social-media-driven FOMO rooted in comparison. It invites a deeper awareness that time is finite and meaning doesn't come automatically. It serves as a reminder to engage fully with life rather than just manage it.
This is not a dismissal of ambition. We can still build businesses, lead organizations, raise families, and shape communities. The real question is at what cost. When our achievements consistently overshadow presence, curiosity, connection, and joy, we may succeed yet still feel something essential is missing.
What if dedicating more time to ourselves enhances our productivity instead of diminishing it? What if our fulfillment, energy, creativity, and clarity improve when we truly live life rather than postpone it?
As we set resolutions and forge new paths, perhaps the most significant one is not about doing more—but about ensuring we don't miss what truly matters. Life FOMO, in this context, is not about regret; it’s about intention.
It involves stepping back, reflecting on the bigger picture, and asking what life is really for—now, not someday. The true risk lies not in failing to accomplish enough but in reaching the end and realizing we were so busy managing life that we forgot to experience it.
This year, I believe Life FOMO should be a bigger thing.