12/17/2025
It goes without saying….
Or at least I hope it does.
How you communicate to your women will deeply affect and impact your s3x with her.
Why? Because life is interwoven with s3x , and if you’re missing the mark in your communication, lots of barriers will build up making it hard for her to lean into you.
This leads to challenges that pour directly into the bedroom.
I’ll be direct:
There’s a difference between how a man shows up in communication compared to how a boy shows up.
She wants the man because the man can offer the following: presence, containment, and safety.
Does this mean it’s all up to the man to lead effective communication, rupture/repair, and no responsibility is placed on her?
Most certainly not.
Must he stand firm in the presence of name calling, threats, demeaning utterances, etc.
Absolutely not.
Let’s be clear, a man contains and provides safety but he also has a spine and won’t tolerate being treated disrespectfully.
However, he knows that his nervous system is the penetrating force in the relationship, and thus he sets the tone.
He knows that she is receptive, and thus more sensitive.
He embodies the wisdom of these energetic principles that are always playing out by what’s described in the post.
Although straightforward, what’s shared here is an overview and is rooted in embodied states.
You can’t think your way into communicating better with your women.
It’ll take practice and an upgrade of your nervous system and operating system.
I have created a training that will walk you through this process and actually help you to not just understand, but embody what’s required for a more potent s3x life.
And I actually created this alongside .guide who has helped hundreds of men to heal the boy within and create better romantic relationships as a result.
If you’d like to know more, hit up the link in my bio. Or just comment “ready” and I’ll send it over to you.
