02/14/2026
When I first started to co-facilitate with the horses, I had to learn to trust the silent interaction between the horse and the human.
I worried that the person was not able to pick up the silent communication of the horse.
So, I did too much talking, attempting the explain what was going on.
One day, Landor gave me a sharp look.
His eyes were crystal clear in communicating to me that I needed to be quiet!
He said this with a silent, yet forceful, direct eye contact.
These days I am of the opinion that it is not even necessary for a person to be able to verbalize what has transpired between themselves and one of the Herd.
What is important, and what the horses are so good at role modeling, is being in the present, and being aware of what is happening in our own bodies.
The horses are sharing their heart energy, and we are the lucky recipients.
However, we need to be present and focused on this nourishing gift to truly grow and enjoy the horses’ love.