12/30/2025
For those of you who love reflecting as much as I do 💛
(year-end reflections — simple, honest techniques)
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🟡 TECHNIQUE 1. “THREE POINTS”
If words are hard to find, but you want to mark the year.
Just answer in one sentence each:
1. This year I learned…
(not “to be perfect,” but something real — to endure, to let go, to stay silent, to speak up, to protect myself)
2. This year I lost / left behind…
(people, illusions, expectations, roles — anything that no longer hurts)
3. This year I preserved…
(myself, my strength, my sensitivity, my curiosity, my path)
👉 That’s it.
Three sentences are already a reflection.
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🟡 TECHNIQUE 2. “NO DECORATIONS”
When you don’t want forced positivity.
Finish these honestly, without excuses:
• The hardest thing this year was…
• What exhausted me the most was…
• What supported me the most was…
This is not analysis.
It’s acknowledgment. And that already heals.
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🟡 TECHNIQUE 3. “ME — TO MYSELF”
If you want warmth, not summaries.
Write to yourself as if to another person:
“I know this year was not easy.
You endured a lot.
You didn’t break.
And that is enough.”
Even four lines are already a gentle closing of the year.
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🟡 TECHNIQUE 4. “WHAT I’M DEFINITELY NOT TAKING WITH ME”
Works especially well when you feel overloaded.
Make a list of 3–5 items:
• I am no longer taking with me…
• I am no longer obligated to…
• I am no longer proving…
This is not about plans.
This is about freeing space for what comes next ✨