04/06/2026
Retreat Reflections 1/7
Itâs been two weeks since I left Maui after three weeks in silence. Iâm grateful for all that was experienced, and Iâm still noticing what that time clarified.
Retreat and quiet reflection have a way of showing us what weâre still carrying that no longer serves us.
Sometimes moving forward begins with putting a few things down.
Hurt feelings.
Anger.
Disappointment.
Moments of feeling misunderstood, offended, or sad about how things unfolded.
But once something is set down, and a boundary becomes clear, space opens.
Right before retreat, I came across this line:
Stop choosing what isnât choosing you.
That sentence has stayed with me.
And it still feels true.
Since coming home, thereâs been a softening and a settling in me, and a quiet excitement about what is beginning to take shape.
Over the next while, Iâll be sharing a few reflections from retreat. Some tender, some surprising, a few that made me laugh out loud.
This is the first.