RestSure.

RestSure. Shylene & Susan bring a fresh and personal perspective to death, dying and the dead. RestSure is an I saw this through family, friends, and colleges. Now.

Shylene Schlackl & Susan Blackwood have teamed up to build this comprehensive understanding of what we all need to know about the end of life here in British Columbia. Working together over the past couple of years they have become a great team, ready to support our community. Working as a team and separately in their own fields, Susan and Shylene bring a unique cross of wisdom and play to this field of service. Over the past years, these two have developed various 'prescriptions" for rest and sureness at the end of life. The Eight Areas of Transition: a rest assurance plan
1) Living Life - what does life truly mean to you?
2) People - key people and the impact your death will have on them.
3) Belief - your thoughts on death, dying, and the dead
4) Grief - a normal part of living and empowers you when honoured
5) Transition - document, clarify and discuss your Exit strategy
6) Last Honours - help. you organize and think about your funeral
7) Legacy/Ancestry- contemplation on what you are leaving behind
8) Material Life - your physical presence, possessions and such

it was only a few years ago i (Shylene) began to notice people are not coping well with deaths. Through my work in the community and my very large family, I knew I wanted to begin this conversation, begin learning about this area of life. I am slowing learning, exploring, and researching death, practices, and cultural traditions, rituals, and ceremonies. I am reading and creating documents to help support my circles of people. Planning to create the Rest-Assured package, to guide, support, and deepen our relationship to each other, our lives, and our deaths. I am looking forward to using this page to help me collect and share more about the materials and resources becoming widely available online. Together, we are co-creating awareness, acceptance, and a bit of magic around this once very dark and often neglected part of being human. blessed be!

How we exit It TakesTimeTo Die
11/03/2025

How we exit
It
Takes
Time

To
Die

The instant breath leaves the body, life does not vanish — it unravels.
Not in silence, but in a slow, invisible collapse.

The brain is the first to surrender, starved of oxygen, its neurons flickering out like dying stars. The heart follows, then the great engines of the body — the liver, the kidneys, the pancreas — each fighting for a few more desperate moments before the dark settles in.

And yet… the body is not done.
Beneath the still skin, a quiet rebellion continues.

The cells of the cornea, the tendons, even the heart valves, hold on for hours. Skin endures for a day. White blood cells, the soldiers of our immune system, march on for nearly three.

Scientists call it the twilight of death — that eerie window when life lingers in fragments. Deep inside, certain genes awaken as if unaware the war is lost, transcribing DNA into RNA in a last act of defiance.
It’s as if the body whispers, “Not yet.”

But this defiance has a cost. In organ donors, some of these frantic postmortem cells mutate — their chaos carried into another life, perhaps explaining why some transplant recipients face strange, higher risks.

Death, it seems, is not a line but a landscape — a passage where some parts of us resist the end, even as the rest fades to silence.

Because life doesn’t stop all at once.
It fades, cell by cell, whisper by whisper —
and in that fading lies the final mystery of being alive.

Attended my first Jewish funeral…So very moved by the level of sacred ritual and holding of the eternal.Coming together ...
09/06/2025

Attended my first Jewish funeral…

So very moved by the level of sacred ritual and holding of the eternal.

Coming together as a community to lay a loved one into the Earth, and nestle them in amongst the roots of the trees and the Earth itself, staying together Until the task was completed.

I mean we took shovel & earth scoop after scoop.
Together.

I dug for myself
I dug for my community
I dug for the sacred ritual & rites of passage
I dug for my grandparents
I dug for your grandparents
I dug for our ancestry
& the ancestry of our futures.

I dug till my arm hurt
& then i returned and dug more.

I dug with others until the digging was done & the grave was full.

I stayed
Until everone had left
Read poetry
Felt the sun & earth

Moving
Rich
Deeply nourishing

I feel reverence & humility
🙏

Do come check out our locals shelves!
08/26/2025

Do come check out our locals shelves!

https://karenwyattmd.substack.com/p/what-death-doulas-offer-at-the-end our network is built with groups like Deathwalker...
08/19/2025

https://karenwyattmd.substack.com/p/what-death-doulas-offer-at-the-end

our network is built with groups like Deathwalker Creations and CircleSpace, Karla Kerr - Empowered End of Life, and Jilly Hyndman CPCC PCC the heartrageous coach, and RestSure. we have many versions available to us, to the community, to support and be present in these time of change.

Changing how we navigate death, dying and the dead.

So very thankful.

And why you need to know about their work

08/19/2025
08/12/2025

Let us continue to expand how we think about death and EOL choice.
Growing how we do this is inspiring!

we can do death different!

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Wow!
07/16/2025

Wow!

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Susan Blackwood & Shylene Schlackl have teamed up to build this comprehensive understanding of what we all need to know about end of life here in British Columbia. Working together over the past couple of years they have become a great team, ready to support our community. Working as a team and separately in their own fields, Susan and Shylene bring a unique cross of wisdom and play to this field of service. Over the past years these two have developed various 'prescriptions" for rest and sureness in end of life. The Eight areas of Transition: a rest sure plan 1) Beliefs -(W5 of You) 2)People (Feelings too) 3) Living Life 4) Material Life 5) Transitional 6) Its Your Funeral 7) After Death 8) Grieving It was only a few years ago i (Shylene) began to notice people are not coping well with deaths. I saw this through family, friends and colleges. Through my work in community and my very large family I knew I wanted to begin this conversation, begin learning about this area of life. Now .. I am slowing learning, exploring and researching death, practices and cultural traditions, rituals and ceremony. I am reading and creating documents to help support my circles of people. Planning to create the Rest-Assured package, to guide, support and deepen our relationship to each other, our lives and our deaths. I am looking forward to using this page to help me collect and share more about the materials and resources becoming widely available online. Together, we are co-creating awareness, acceptance and a bit of magic around this once very dark and often neglected part of being human. blessed be!