07/25/2025
What I thought was my superpower, was actually also me operating from my wounding.
Holding space for others.
Let me explain
I would often get asked “doesn't that bother you?”, “how do you put up with it?”, or told things like “you have the patience of a saint”.
In regards to what I allowed in behaviors from others around me.
I can hold space like a boss. Or so I thought.
What it actually was was seeing people's highest timeline. The possibilities. The room for growth and space. Being the fixer, the savoir, the healer, the teacher, the wayshower.
There is a duality in this.
It is not wrong to be those things.
To hold space while others move through their own ish.
That is the key word. MOVE!!!
If others are not moving through it, if they are not choosing growth, and you choose to allow it. You are keeping both of you stuck.
When you become the fall out of someone else's trauma, you are no longer holding space for them.
You are also choosing not to MOVE.
When you have the awareness and choose to not do it differently next time…..well, we know that is the definition of insanity.
We are not here to repeat patterns.
We are here to MOVE!!! ✨️✨️✨️
