Insight For Life

05/14/2023

04/06/2022

We broke-up!

What do I do now my life is over?

If your at this point, and your lost as to why this happened truth is you knew it was coming and did nothing about it.

It takes a lot of heartache to reach this point.

Chances are many of these things or all were happening.

* Avoiding problems
* Not Listening
* Not making time
* Coasting
* Resentment
* Lack of trust
* Fear

You end up feeling lost, lonely in their presence, and longing for a better life.

When one partner finally says it's over they have built a huge case at this point in order to make it "easier" but its never easy..

Truth is you both feel attacked and deeply hurt.

So who's fault is it!
Both!

Relationships are 50/50

More to the point you both lost sight of who YOU are as a person, your identity in the relationship.

This is called co-dependency when you both start to control the other in different ways.

Where you feel they are controlling you, you are allowing it and vice versa.

This happens in areas of our lives that we feel out of control so we allow the control.

It's only a matter of time before we can't maintain this charade. Neither partner is allowing the other to be their true self.

You fell in love with the real them.

So how did you let this happen?

Reach out today for a free consultation to find out how and discover what you can do to prevent this from happening.

https://calendly.com/insightforlife/45-min-breakthrough-call

No matter who your with history will repeat itself until YOU stop the unwanted pattern.

It will amaze you how quickly this can be cleaned up and straitened out if you choose to.

The freedom we're looking for is personal and internal.

03/29/2022

Do you feel like your life has been hijacked?

Doing things how others want things done?

Taking care of everyone elses needs instead of your own?

Following others expectations of you?

Trying hard to fit in and please everyone around you?

Why?

Does it make you happy?

Do you feel appreciated for your efforts?

Does it make you feel loved?

Do they respect you for all you do or do they just keep asking for more?

In life there is nothing wrong with helping others, wanting to help make others lives better that's a beautiful thing, but when it is at the expense of your own happiness this is when it becomes an issue!

We need to put ourselves and our happiness first!

Sometimes that means saying no.

Sometimes that means doing things others wouldn't agree with or approve of because you see it's value that they can't see.

Sometimes you need to break the mold because we don't all fit in theirs, we have our own.

Sometimes you have a purpose that needs to be achieved so achieve it, don't let anyone or anything stop you.

Sometimes you just need a break, so take it! Don't feel guilty for needing it, they don't know how you feel, you do!

When we do us, we are in the flow of life.
We then feel appreciated, respected and loved when we do things for others.
There needs to be balance.

Focus on your needs, desires and your instincts, give yourself permission to have and follow them.
Then, watch everything you were lacking come to you naturally.

Happiness doesn't come from others it comes from within!

03/17/2022

Shame on me! ..and shame on you!

What is one of the worst ways we can harm ourselves or others?

Shame!

A deep emotional state that we deem as failure that goes against our values, morals or humanity itself.

We have a natural instinct that we all follow an internal source of knowing when something we've done is really not right.

However, we have our reasons for doing everything we do even though it may appear shameful or not the prefered action.

It's not to justify ourselves or others it's to learn from and understand our why.

When we take the time to sort out why we did it and talk about it the problem will inevitably unravel for ourselves and we can resolve it within us.

There is no issue to big or small that can't be understood.

If we hold onto that shame and torture ourselves with it we ultimately condemn ourselves as a villian in our own lives.

It's not a life I wish on anyone,

This pain hurts us literally to our core if not resolved!

We can reach forgiveness!

Join Jeff Visnic and I today March 17 at 2pm EST on Relationship Talk
Where we will be discussing Shame -
What it does to us and how to overcome the potential horrors within it.

This will be the first of a 3 part series where we will be dicussing in depth the 3 deep tortures Shame, Blame and Guilt!

Click below to catch them all each week Thursday at 2pm EST
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02/22/2022

The world has taught us a lot about love this month!

What is your take away about love and all that is happening right now?

Let me know in the comments!

Here's mine!

Love is scary, but only if you fear it.

Love is spiteful, but only if you fear it.

Love is painful, but only if you fear it.

Love makes us angry, but only if you fear it.

Love is controling, but only if you fear it.

Love is beautiful, but only if you have faith in it.

Love is unifying, but only if you have faith in it.

Love is healing, but only if you have faith in it.

Love protects us, but only if you have faith in it.

Love is peaceful, but only if you have faith in it.

There is so much love in the world when we choose to feel it, see it, trust it and respect it.

No one is here on this earth to suffer. We make ourselves suffer by not having faith.

I know this because I have lived in fear and I have now lived in faith for many years.

Faith is a space of trusting in ourselves and in something greater than ourselves.

There are no limits to the amazing things we are capable of accomplishing in this space.

There are also no limits to our destruction capabilities in a fearful space.

Which would you prefer?

I pray you choose love because love concors all. It always has and always will and that is what our spirit was put here to do.

Please reach out if you are struggling with this right now. Click below!

https://calendly.com/insightforlife/45-min-breakthrough-call

You are loving!
Fear is something that only exists in our mind and it can be overcome -- if you so choose too!