The Christian Psychiatrist

16/11/2025

What causes burnout? What prompts an individual to lose motivation for a profession they have been trained for? Burnout occurs when one dedicates extensive hours, typically eight or twelve hours daily, to an activity that does not provide a sense of joy, fulfillment or purpose. It happens when individuals prioritize financial gain over pursuing their passions; when they excel in a job that lacks personal significance. Ultimately, burnout transpires when one's time is solely exchanged for monetary compensation. We are created in the image of God; we are created to find meaning in what we do.

16/11/2025

Many individuals have encountered or are dealing with narcissistic personalities, prompting us to wonder: How can they exhibit such cruelty? I firmly believe that they have been misled by malevolent spirits. These spirits infiltrate through vulnerabilities such as anger, resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness, or pride, distorting their perception of reality. As a result, they become convinced that others are attempting to manipulate them, leading them to adopt manipulative tactics themselves. They are further convinced that they cannot trust anyone and that they possess superiority over others. It is not safe to engage in relationships with individuals who harbor such beliefs; however, understanding that they are gravely deceived can facilitate forgiveness. We can forgive because we realize that narcissistic people are simply believing lies about us and about other people.

15/11/2025

15/11/2025

It is always too soon to quit praying!

15/11/2025

When we pray for God's kingdom to come to earth as it is in heaven, what are we truly petitioning for? What are we requesting or asking God to accomplish? Does heaven harbor sickness or disease? Does heaven struggle with poverty or debt? Is heaven plagued by strife, anger, abuse, deception, narcissism, homelessness, or sociopathy? By invoking God's kingdom to come to earth, we are essentially asking for a replication of heaven's divine order. Although we often recite these words mechanically, meditation reveals that we are seeking God's intervention to resolve, redeem, and heal the myriad issues afflicting our world. God's kingdom, embodied in Jesus Christ, has already come to earth, and the Holy Spirit resides within us; therefore, when we pray for God's kingdom to come, we are praying for the manifestation of resolution, redemption, and healing in all aspects of our earthly lives. If poverty debt and illness are not in heaven, then they should not be on earth. Gods will is his word and he says he heals us of all our diseases. He says wealth and riches are in our homes. He says that His blessing makes us rich.

15/11/2025

What is a “double bind?” A double bind is a psychological tactic employed to confuse and disorient, commonly observed in narcissistic relationships. It involves two conflicting expectations that must be met simultaneously, neither of which yields a favorable outcome. For instance, if a parent with narcissistic tendencies is asked for help, they may become insulted, annoyed, or put upon. Conversely, seeking assistance from an alternative source, such as a relative, may also result in their becoming insulted. This is a quintessential example of a double bind, wherein one is essentially damned if they do and damned if they don’t. And nothing you do will help you in this situation with a narcissistic parent.

15/11/2025

14/11/2025

Healing Shame: Why Has There Been a Surge in Narcissistic Personalities?

Narcissism can serve as a defense mechanism against shame. The biblical narrative of Adam and Eve illustrates this concept. Living in the idyllic Garden of Eden, they were unacquainted with imperfection, trauma, or loss, and their relationship with God was perfect and unbroken. However, upon sinning, Adam shifted the blame to Eve, and Eve blamed the serpent, exemplifying the blame-shifting phenomenon. It is evident that shame is a pervasive issue for individuals without a relationship with Jesus. This is manifest in various behaviors, such as addicts feeling ashamed of their substance abuse, spendthrift individuals being ashamed of their financial mismanagement, and those who engage in infidelity feeling ashamed of their cheating actions. If narcissism is indeed a defense mechanism against shame, this could explain the increasing prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). It appears that people are seeking relief from shame. Let us petition God to heal those in our lives who are grappling with deep-seated shame. Furthermore, let us pray against the pervasive issues of shame and narcissism in our nation and within our sphere of influence.

14/11/2025

If you were raised by toxic, narcissistic, or otherwise emotionally unhealthy caregivers, you were conditioned to tolerate dysfunction. You were taught that your needs were inconsequential and that your caregivers' needs took precedence. Your caregivers' needs consistently superseded yours, and any attention you received was solely to enhance their public image. Your needs were consistently disregarded, and you were always neglected and never prioritized. Consequently, you may tolerate unhealthy friendships due to a lack of education on recognizing red flags and consent. However, recognizing your inherent value as a child of God can be a transformative step towards healing. By acknowledging God's prioritization of your wellbeing, you can learn to value and respect yourself, distinguishing between safe and unhealthy relationships.

14/11/2025

Why does God separate believers from the ungodly? Why does He instruct us not to be unevenly yoked? We have adversaries in the spiritual realm. If we are following God, then His enemies become our enemies; people who are not living a godly life will not rejoice in our prosperity and success. This is difficult to comprehend because we genuinely rejoice in the success of others. Someone who is following Satan will not applaud our accomplishments and prosperity. We must be discerning about the spirits present in others and cautious about who we confide in. We must not share our God-given blessings with those sent from Babylon, lest we forfeit these blessings, as exemplified by Samson and Delilah; he loved her, yet she exploited him.

13/11/2025

When we refuse to forgive others, we are holding them to a higher standard then we hold ourselves