05/02/2026
When she came to me, she was convinced the relationship was the problem. She felt unseen, unmet, worn down from trying, and she believed the most self-respecting thing she could do was walk away. She didn’t come asking how to stay - she came wanting the strength to leave.
But as we slowed things down, something else revealed itself.
It wasn’t that she didn’t know what she wanted. It was that, in her body, it didn’t feel safe to want it out loud. Most of the time, she didn’t speak at all. And when she did, her words came wrapped in tension - fear disguised as communication. This wasn’t dysfunction. It was protection. A nervous system that had learned, long ago, that taking up space could cost her love.
So our work wasn’t about fixing the relationship or teaching better communication. It was about restoring safety - in her body, in her voice, in herself. About helping her feel grounded enough to stay present with her truth instead of bracing against it.
As that safety returned, something shifted. She no longer had to choose between herself and the relationship. From that steadier place, she chose to stay - not from fear, not from habit, but from clarity. And the relationship met her there.
Today, they are married and have a little baby girl!
I share this because so often what looks like a relationship problem is actually a safety problem. And when a woman feels safe enough to be fully herself, life can change in ways we never could have planned.
The is the kind of work held inside Temple of the Feminine Heart.
Temple of the Feminine Heart is a 9-month intimate online journey for women ready to stop managing themselves and begin listening to their bodies. The work centers nervous system safety and embodied feminine wisdom, creating the conditions for honest expression, clear boundaries, and deeper intimacy - within oneself and with others.
We begin February 19.
This is the work I hold women in - not fixing, not forcing, but remembering what it feels like to come home to yourself.
The link to join is in my bio 🤍
Founding member spaces are still available.