23/07/2020
Extraordinary Marriage Ingredients
1. Having the right mindset: what you think is possible, what your subconscious mind believes a marriage looks like.
This is the foundation of everything.
You cannot build a strong house, a strong marriage, on a shaky/bad foundation
The beliefs we form in childhood and then we strengthen throughout our lives (marriage is hard work, marriage is painful, marriage means conflict/tears) are so well ingrained and we are not even aware we have them.
2. Having the right strategies: knowing what actually works and doesn't, being mindful of the tools we use unconsciously (criticism for example) and knowing what to replace them with.
3. Having support, someone to hold your hand through the transformation process, someone who tells you the truth, someone that gives you hugs and also though love, someone who stands for your greatness and the greatness of your marriage
Hint: Those are not the people that tell you "Divorce him because he is hopeless" when you ask "How do I have a happy marriage with this guy?", no matter how well intended they are
4. Accountability - Transforming anything in your life takes some work. Daily. People that hold you accountable for that work, who hold you to your highest standards, who want you to succeed, those are one of your biggest allies in transforming your life
You can find pieces of this puzzle, but only the whole system gives you the transformation.
Google has lots of information on about anything we can think of.
There is no lack of information about weight loss or marriage.
Having the whole system will finally give you the change.
How many Ebooks, articles, checklists do we have to "read" ?
Well I tried it. I've read dozens of books , did online courses , watched Youtube videos. Even if some were good, practical information, they did not change my life.
If you're tired of reading the blogs and watching motivational speeches and getting nowhere, PM me to see how this puzzle can look for you.