29/03/2026
Self-Gaslighting – How to Stop It
Years ago, I caught myself constantly doubting my own feelings and decisions. I would replay every choice in my mind, asking, “Did I do it right? Should I have done more or different?” The harsh voice inside me seemed louder than any outside opinion.
If you catch yourself doing the same, just pause. Breathe.
Remind yourself: you are not your own enemy.
3 tips to stop self-gaslighting:
1. Name it – When you notice self-doubt creeping in, say it out loud: “This is my mind questioning me, not the truth.”
2. Check reality – Ask yourself, “What evidence do I have that this criticism is valid?” Often, the answer is: none.
3. Shift your stance – Replace criticism with curiosity or compassion: “I wonder why I feel this, and what I actually need right now.”
I remember how freeing it felt the first time I actually treated myself as an ally. I could finally trust my intuition and step forward with clarity and calm.
Even if I didn't see the whole picture in front of me.
We don't have to...
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