16/12/2025
Believe everything you see and read on the internet at your own risk!!!
I was dragged out of my cocoon because I want to shed light on somethings that we perceive to be true simply because someone wrote it with so much conviction online. I also will shed light on how we can avoid being victimized because of naivety.
First point I'll like to make was that I stumbled on a comment on tiktok by someone I know so well who almost ruined her daughter's life; the daughter's story is similar to mine. I personally know this woman to have almost ruined her daughter's life and even stopped her from going to school but she commented on a video that " I can't stand any parent who refuses to send their children to school". Two days in, the comment already had 150 + likes and I'm sure if I go back today, it'll be at about 1k plus. The poster was congratulating her by saying "that's a mother right there" 😂😂😂 but for her daughter and the people that know her, she has no motherly instinct! Online though, she can be a chameleon and people will believe her so much so that if her daughter comes out with her story, they'll brand her a liar like I was branded for decades. I'll leave it at that.
There's a popular black American Creator I used to love and follow on tiktok, I have shared some of her videos on my page but a few months ago, I unfollowed her because she shared a video where another black American woman was saying that Africa was trying to destiny swap with America. I deliberately did not call them African-American because they do not like being associated with Africa, thank God!
This morning however I saw on Ashleyy Thomas 's stories where she shared a similar story about Africans wanting to destiny swap with black Americans and I was beyond shocked.
These are women in the spiritual community and I thought I was feeling uneasy on her wall only because of her male-centeredness but sharing such content as an astrologer means she doesn't know what the heck she's doing. As someone who reads charts, there's travel in people's charts, someone can't succeed if they stay where they are. These people are supposed to know that! Also, your calling and journey is not similar to anyone else's,so I don't believe anyone can destiny swap without negative consequences.
I want to point out my belief that no one can actually destiny swap with you unless you give them the right. Once you take your power back, the universe provides everything it had in store for you , so how is that destiny swapping?
I have so many questions... What do they have that they think we want? Is it their numerous traumas with men or the identity issues they've refused to address or do we want to swap with them to experience the racism they face everyday?
It's beyond appalling that people will leave the problem they're facing and are attacking a whole different continent simply because some people want and do become better after traveling.
I unfollowed so fast because I know the universe is vast for everyone to harvest on the right frequency and I don't like being around spaces that play with my nerves. Caro White People 😑😑😑
This is to also serve as a warning to some of my fellow African women abroad; stick with your kind in such communities because they're openly telling us they hate us; it's not enough that there's racism, we're now seeing people with identity issues projecting their hatred on people who want nothing from them.
I tagged her with my full chest, she can untag herself IDC 😑!
In all, believe people but use discernment because some of these people do not know what they're doing or saying.
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