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05/11/2025

Spirit has put this heavy on me and I think someone needs to hear this...
Do not share your dreams with everyone around you. It's not because you're best friends or work colleagues that means someone has your best interest at heart.
For those of you who read the Bible, go read the story of Joseph again and learn to keep certain dreams to yourself. Even though the very thing the brothers did to prevent his dream from happening instead put him at the right path, he suffered a lot for it.
I've always had the gift of dreaming and interpretation and I remember a few years ago when a friend was sharing a dream about herself to us to seek clarity... I immediately understood that she was going to have something beautiful ahead but the other friend we were with, said it was about her.
This is how witchcraft sets in and that's how people destiny swap ...
People can literally hear your dreams and realize what you're going to become and send the evil eye your way or even keel you, do not share your dreams with just about anyone.
Ask your guides for interpretation or seek a spiritual person to help you with your dreams. Your guides are actually closer than you think and if you ask them, you'll hear from them .

© Ελλα

04/11/2025

Ladies, as we come to the end of this year, let's not forget that it's still the year of the snake and we really need to be cautious especially when dealing with the masculine.
If you're here on my page, I'm sure you're privy to all the mess women are facing because of the masculine.
Take your healing seriously, move cautiously and be as private as you can be.
In recent months, I've seen things that would make any normal woman run away from this space but I'm spiritual and protected. One day, I will get to completely share some of the things I witnessed in this snake year because I finally honed in on my feminine.
The lessons here still apply right into the early months of 2026.
Be as private as you can be, if you're in a marriage or cohabit with a man who can destroy you because he's rich, that's when you leave strategically.
You all can see how the universe had to intervene to liberate Regina but it definitely came with bitter lessons to learn.
Keep your mouth shut about your achievements, protect yourself. I cannot emphasize this enough!

It's mind-blowing to see most people I follow talk about the same topic I planned on talking about as a first post... Male centering.

Honestly, I don't like talking about men like that, I never engage them on posts and I'm glad many women whom I follow do same. The feminine is on her throne.
Let me just say this, ladies as a reminder;

This 2025, focus on you
Invest in you
Don't give men money (punishment awaits you)
Take your health seriously
Seize every opportunity to enjoy life
Exercise
Make new friends
Put yourself out there
Wear those dresses you're saving for a special occasion. Being alive is a special occasion
ACCEPT LOVE (you're lovable)
Center yourself
Practice gratitude always
Do not forget to be wicked 🎊
Happy New You

03/11/2025

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02/11/2025

We're in the foreshadows of mercury retrograde and I honestly look forward to it because I know it's going to bring me some good laughs or money.
I've been busy these past few days and when I rounded up with work late evening yesterday, I decided to retire early and my Cameroon line started buzzing. I just knew it was a 🥷🏾that was up to no good.
Lo and behold it was one semi-blind effer I had the displeasure of dating briefly. I answered in my most Mama G tone ever "ehen"
🥷🏾 "Hello"
Me again "ehen".
He hung up and I prepared him for slaughter today 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾.
Called him with my business line and he was trying to pretend to not know who it was via texting.
Me, "you know who's texting" and he kept trying to pretend "please who's this" even after I clearly stated that you called my Cameroon line last night.
I decided to not engage anymore and texted "mschewww"
Then he proceeded to say "please I don't recognize that name" 🙄As per mschewww is supposed to be a reminder about someone and it was not me trying to sigh. Then I remembered why I left him in the first place, very rich but very dumb.
I just didn't know how dumb he was till he said he doesn't recognize that name but this was literally me after that damn convo 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾 because wthelly.

30/10/2025

I posted this on my story but thought to share my extra two cents on these.
You see, I love the sprinkle sprinkle lady and vibe with some of her counsel still but you see here👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾, this is why that lifestyle doesn't cut it for everyone.
Not everyone is capable of having causal s*x, not every one enjoys harmonious s*x either and that's why it will work for some and not others.
So it's futile teaching everyone to be transactional because it won't work for them,no matter how much they try it. It's written in the charts abi stars.
Just like the post about money. Not everyone will make money the same way.
So learn to listen to your inner voice.
If the sprinkle sprinkle life doesn't cut it for you, maybe you're barking up the wrong tree.
For those who keep asking about if I read charts, no I don't but I'm going to tag someone on my stories. She's quite expensive but she's great.

© Eλλα

29/10/2025

Nna says he wants to cancel membership to heaven.
That the church should "bring him out completely".
You go nowhere

28/10/2025

I'm releasing one of my clients who's been with me for almost five months, (the longest someone has stayed with me ever) and I'm grateful for the changes I'm seeing.
There were times when she couldn't stomach all the repressed feelings and would run to me for help and I'll schedule an impromptu session out of our regular sessions to help her process the feelings but I knew I wasn't doing her any good and on one of the days she called, I told her it's time to sit with these feelings.

She sent all the crying emojis in her phone but I let her handle them alone and she gained so much clarity that I regretted haven not let her sit with these feelings earlier but then again, everyone deserves a soft landing, especially when you've been through the kind of things she's been through.

Every form of abuse you can imagine, she's experienced and I saw a new person during this last but one session we had.
The point of this post however is what she told me and I asked her if I could share to which she agreed!

She said over the the last few years, she'd been through therapy with others but she always found herself experiencing the same things and that she realized she kept attracting the same kinds of relationships and kept staying even when the men introduced new women into the equation.
That she has also read from one of her coaches that it's good to leave a so called high value man strategically; that was where I stopped her ...

I don't know who coined that term but I do not believe in high value men. I see all men the same, broke, rich, ugly, handsome, they're all men! I have dated such people and they're nothing to write home about and if I were even to use high value and a man together in the same sentence, it'll definitely not be about what he has in his pocket because those are the worst kinds of men I've seen.
I can consider a man high value by how he treats women and children and not by the cars and coins he flaunts around. You can never consider Elon Musk a high value man, anyman with so many multiple baby mamas and children is not a high value man, no matter what he has in his account. You listen to the current president of the US and you'll pour spit on whosoever considers him a high value man.

Now, I'm not one to fit in a particular box, I'm forever evolving and I have noticed that I always shatter illusions and people hate that. My client told me though, that this is the first time she left that kind of person without strategy and she didn't regret it.

She only had to look at how she was being treated by him to know he was not as high value as he seemed. Most of the potential you see in men are actually your own potential and you'll realize once you leave them that they have no value, when you heal, you must wonder what attracted you to them in the first place. She couldn't even cry, she said she tried to but she felt ashamed instead 😁 because why should you be crying over that?

I've always said a man's money does nothing for a woman because this particular client received transfer from this man even on the day of breakup ,his money meant nothing to her because she has started truly loving and valuing herself and she told me she feels no regrets whatsoever.
Besides the fact that she got a new job a few months after she began with me, she has never really been one who lacked money, her problem has always been how she valued herself because she was constantly being devalued in all the relationships in her life, be it in friendships or romantic partnerships.
As time goes by, I'm convinced women created men to have coitus with them if they wanted kids and to do hard labor 🤌🏾. If you see the animal kingdom, you'll see that this is the theory by which they live. The females only tolerate males when they're ready to mate and species like bees and octopuses end up keeling their male counterparts after their job is done. 😂Not saying we should do same but I'm convinced that this is the right way we were supposed to cohabit with men for proper homeostasis but you know... patriarchy 🤷🏾.
I know some of us have convinced ourselves that we can cope with them if they have money enough but let's use Regina and Mr Regina as a cautionary tale. All the money in the world couldn't do s**t for her mental health and we all know if your mental health is fu**ed, so is your life.
Yet again, I feel like a very proud mother who has managed to raise yet another child to be a good human to herself first and to the society in general and I say thank you to the universe for the gift of healing. When I was going through trauma, I didn't know it was the training I'll need to help others but here I am!

© Ελλα

27/10/2025

The last time a man entered my "itid" 😂 was almost nine months ago
Ever since then, I'll open Facebook and I'll find readings from astrologers for Sagittarius saying they're seeing a baby. I'll say God forbid and try my moon sign...and it'll be like "congratulations on your rainbow baby", my rising..."it's a cryptic pregnancy" .... okay lemme check my Venus nau🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾that one can't disappoint but it'll be like... "Your baby girl looks just like you, congratulations "
God of child -free women abeg nau🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾😭😭😭

26/10/2025

Download of the day
Exodus 34:14
"God is a jealous God"👇🏾

It's been a rampant theme I've been writing about but I was amazed at how much we were tricked into believing what was not intended; sidenote, everyone gets karma; good or bad especially the people who changed the Bible interpretations but what they did to escape this particular karma of misrepresentation of the Bible is to put them out there juxtaposed enough to confuse the masses, that way,they will say "but the word was always there, they didn't just understand"🤷🏾. We have to seek this knowledge on our own, hence "seek ye first the kingdom of God" lol. I'll try to make a post about this.

Anyways I digress. For God is a jealous God abi how them dey talkam... You are God in a body, you cannot love anyone else above you, your inner man will never be okay with you putting anything, person or place above herself/himself... So wrath ensues when anyone tries it.
Now what Exodus 34:14 means is what I've been screaming about in almost all my content.
Your devotion, your faithfulness, your love, should be to you! Not some sky-daddy who sits and waits for you to sin and swipes cord. The wrath threatened if you worship another God are the trials and tribulations you'll face because you refused to put yourself first.
You get trauma, you get hurt, you incure losses but the same God is merciful because when you learn how to be devoted to you, by healing and focusing on self, you get rewards, you get better relationships,you get a better job or business and you get overall peace ✌🏾.
You see, there are lot of content now that tell us that we are not seperate from others, that each person we see is another version of us ; because we are the universe experiencing itself in various ways. But the thematic analysis is always a focus on self and self love. Without the love of self, you are nothing that's why so many people who don't love themselves pick on others who do. They try to get others to hate the one who stands up for themselves because it reminds them that it's what they lack!
So when you get attacked from multiple corners by people you know you did nothing to, be glad that the universe has assessed and you're thriving in self love. Rejoice instead !
Remember, when you start giving your energy to things like that in an unhealthy manner, either by responding or trying to defend yourself, you're acting ungodly 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾 that's beneath you and wrath will definitely ensue.
This is the gospel for today 🤗😜

© Ελλα

26/10/2025

I believe if we were exposed early enough to such icons' experiences, we would learn early enough,the true nature of those we get into romantic relationships with.
As a woman, the only striving you should be doing is to get a good life for you and your kids if you have them.
Anyone who sells you a story that you're no better without a man is a scam. We've all seen how people who leave men become better and we've also seen how women who let men into their lives started witnessing the deterioration of their lives and resources.
I'm glad our Mamas are sharing their stories

24/10/2025

Learn how to disappoint people

Learn how to be useless to people, especially people who are demanding of your energy at the expense of your well-being.
Especially if they're family members who expect you to be what they expect you to be without providing the appropriate resources to lead you there.
I can't believe I used to hate being called useless, now I look forward to it.
Being useless saves you a lot!
It keeps away toxic people, relationships, expectations and situations that are not beneficial to you.
This particular advice goes especially for eldest daughters or only daughters who grew up parentifying everyone.
It's part of your healing.

Here are the benefits of becoming useless to or be a disappointment 😂
You'll have time to parentify yourself.
You'll have time to spend with the right people, especially people who nourish you right back.
If you have children, you'll spend quality time with them and not pass on generational trauma.
You'll learn to rest without feeling guilty.

You'll get to know yourself better.
These days, I wake up looking forward to who I can disappoint; after years of compliance and people pleasing, I'm at a place of peace, I do whatever the f**k I want and nothing stops me from resting.
Most times, the only thing that takes me out of my house is shopping and some exercises.

I even deliberately give out false info to people who make enquiries about my business when my intuition warns me about them...
I've also come to accept that not everyone is my client, we all have a client base. I can't tell you the level of peace this has brought me and how regulated my nervous system has become.
We didn't come to this life to perform for other people, we came to experience life in human form but performance was the order of the day. So when you're tired of being traumatized by others and decide you want to be happy, learn the power of no. Saying no to things and people is frequency language for the universe. You're saying yes to yourself because that's what the universe wants for you (alignment).
Saying no to everything that doesn't replenish you is saying yes to your highest self.

© Ελλα

22/10/2025

Before I continue with my abandonment series, let's talk about the law of polarity.

One of the most misunderstood universal laws is the law of polarity , the truth that everything has its opposite, and that both sides are necessary for wholeness and that nothing exists without its counterpart.
Light cannot exist without darkness.Joy cannot be felt without sadness.
Someone capable of great love is also capable of great indifference, I know most people think hate is the opposite of love, to me, it's not, it's indifference.
I used to say when I stop loving someone, I nothing them, they mean nothing to me, hate feeds into energy that I'm not willing to spend on people and things that don't matter, I simply 'nothing' them.
Growth cannot happen without discomfort, pain or trauma.
Just like abundance cannot be felt without lack.

When you understand this, you stop resisting what appears negative. You begin to see it as seed of transformation. The law reminds us that every low vibration carries the potential for its opposite high vibration, they are two ends of the same stick. I'd made a post about this where I used a ruler as an example.

Listen , a heartbreak that humbles your ego and opens your heart to real love isn't a bad thing.
Financial struggle that activates your inner resourcefulness and wealth consciousness is also a very good thing
The one that we fear the most 🤭, the dark night of the soul births your spiritual awakening if you let it, so nothing is really bad if we consider that these are all for our own good. Rejection redirects you to divine alignment. This is what I was telling a client about during one of our sessions, I told her that anything that has rejection energy is trying to tell her she's carrying a lot of junk that needs to be released.
I asked her how she would be able to hold new things if her hands are already filled with junk?
So

I know that all these things seem bad but nothing is ever truly “bad” it’s simply an unbalanced pole seeking integration. Once you shift your perception, you alchemize pain into power, scarcity into abundance, and fear into wisdom.

Embrace both ends of the spectrum. Life is not meant to be escaped, it’s meant to be lived and balanced!

© Ελλα