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As someone who's been the other woman in a relationship, it's important to learn that even if you didn't know that your ...
02/12/2025

As someone who's been the other woman in a relationship, it's important to learn that even if you didn't know that your partner was involved with someone else, that sets you up already to be isolated from your support system.
We have seen women who thought they gained something good by marrying another woman's husband get every kind of negative karma and they are all stripped of support.
It doesn't matter what a man tells you about even his ex-wife, thoughtless of the one who is still married, you have to do your own due diligence because that man will ensure society hates you whilst he moves on and plays the victim. Now men have gathered and are helping 2face play the victim whilst Natasha is suddenly the villain in his life

Annie was accused of being a drug addict who couldn't hold her own and because she'd made statements about not being a feminist and all, she helped the man isolate her from immediate support. It was only when her life was falling apart that women still stood by her and I'm afraid, women like Judy and Natasha are all cut from these same cloth. Unfortunately for them though, they outdid themselves and society will definitely watch and gloat !
The moment they chose to stick by these men, they rid themselves of the very support system that could be backing them now that things are getting awry.
Women don't need to keep entertaining men who have drama and baggage like this.
There's an ediet that reached out inbox saying he wanted to marry me. A man in his 60s,twice divorced and I told him, no problem, I just need to talk to your ex wife first. He lied about how she got pregnant for a different man and all what not but the moment I said I'll ask about him from the said wife, all hell broke loose. He insulted me,told me I'll stay in my father's house as if na bad thing before blocking me🤣.
Used goods are just that, used goods, you can only use them for so long before they become permanently damaged.

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01/12/2025

♐ like I said 😁
Everything

Ever since I started watching RHOA, Porsha gained the sympathy of fans from the sufferings she was going through in the ...
29/11/2025

Ever since I started watching RHOA, Porsha gained the sympathy of fans from the sufferings she was going through in the hands of her then partner who abandoned her for another woman, many don't know him but he was mentioned a few times and she picked up the pieces of her life from then onwards. As she grew, I started liking her and I still follow her till date.
I watched her move from victim to villain and to sovereignty!
There was a day she posted, trolling men that "maybe the reason why they can't love a woman is because their true soulmate is a man" 😂😂😂. I know it pi**ed a lot of men and their prayer has probably been answered as she's soft launched her new partner- a woman!!!!
Not that I wasn't privy to this info. She'd said it when asked a few months back amidst her nasty divorce from Mrs Porsha Simon, that she's dating a man and a woman! I figured it was a stud but the only reason I'm posting about this is because this stud is a Sagittarius woman 😂😂😂😂.
You can count on us to change your perspective and accept yourself in ways that no one can!
Tiri gbosa for Sagittarius people.
Ps ; my love for Sagittarius ends with my gender only. If you're a Sagittarius man, I no kuku like you.
Goan heal.
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29/11/2025

Like I said...
Welcome to Sag Szn
They say Dec Sag but I say all Sags have at least one of these characteristics.

28/11/2025

Like I said, everything Sag this period 😂.

The Danish deception is the most boring series I've watched so far . I gave up on the first episode because her sheepish...
22/11/2025

The Danish deception is the most boring series I've watched so far .
I gave up on the first episode because her sheepish smile made me know she's unrepentant and will still fall for a different man's scam.
You mean to tell me that this same internet that lady used to share that story wasn't the same one , or isn't the same one we've been watching series like the Tinder Swindler, Who TF did I marry and all those other tales of love gone wrong?
I'm here to actually victim blame because she took no accountability for what she went through and that story would not have seen the light of day had that man not left her!

You see a man in this day and age and fall for his looks and do everything to be seen (aka picked) and when he picks you and used you , you set ring light to create a 26part story to share to the world that you're not as smart as you are and indeed, you have no self respect nor love for yourself or others.
She's part of the crowd of women who put others in harm's way because of a man because she didn't share her story when his lies kept adding up, that was why he was able to collect money from her friends and family.
The most annoying part is that he said he's shocked that she's appalled by his behaviour because she comes from Nigeria where scamming "hailed" from😂😂😂.
I had to get bits and pieces of the complete story from others because she was too annoying. Let me just end here first.

The other news about this BB Cubana lady and her friend is another trend I stumbled on and I'm wondering what's wrong with women.
My own take is that there are some titles that we should be comfortable with in this 2025, that goes for the lady in the deception story because she was afraid of being called single for the rest of her life.

As a woman 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
You should be comfortable when people tell you you're going to die single.
You should be comfortable to be called a pr******te.
You should be comfortable with the le***an title even if you don't swing that way. This is now my favorite title, even though I don't like labels.
You should be comfortable with every narrative out there about you without the need to defend anything.
I saw another person set ring light and tried to defend herself and the whole reason why she was being dragged by the other was deflected and they focused on her being a le***an!

You see, that's how narcissists attack, they cause problems and when you counter react, they deflect.
BB Cubana blocked someone because she felt like she was being used for money and rightfully so.
She was maintaining boundaries.

The other lady felt slighted and decided to out her as a le***an.
Now her entire narrative is focused on defending herself and denying that she's a le***an.
The entire focus which was boundaries, has been swept under the rug. That is why I don't engage anymore with people who try to spin stories about me.
If I try to maintain boundaries and you think you can deflect by sharing my secrets, what does that make you?

My final point.
We know that snakes are considered as the sexiest animals; have we also noticed that a lot of secrets that are being exposed in this snake year are sexually linked?

Picture is unrelated btw
Part of my business items but you get my point 🥱

20/11/2025

I wanted to post about the Emeka Ike interview and his ex-wife saga but wetin concern me concern married people?

I have discovered it for myself too. Even foods that have vitamin D are going to help shrink them.
Start today, save a life

I have a bittersweet relationship with trends: They're sweet when "it's hot" but they die down as fast as they usually s...
18/11/2025

I have a bittersweet relationship with trends:
They're sweet when "it's hot" but they die down as fast as they usually start.
On social media spaces now, the most talked about topic is about a regulated nervous system and it's sadly going to die down like "diabolical, narcissist, divine feminine" and all the other trendy topics that "trended".
However, I can say with conviction that it's one of the best topics I like to savor because I use myself as a guinea pig to divulge everything necessary to be sure that it was indeed necessary and accurate for my self development.

I love breaking down these ideologies to its simplest forms as well so that even the layman can understand the phenomena.
To me, a regulated nervous system therefore; is living without fear.
It's resting without guilt
It's eating without counting calories
It's spending without penny-pinching
It's living without worries and most importantly, it's living without stress.

Does this mean that you won't have issues that require you to be stressed? Hell no!
But what you do in the face of stress is what confirms if your nervous system is regulated or not.
For example:
if you have had issues in the past with female friendships, you healed from that and met with new people and the same issues arise such as them withdrawing from you, in the past, you could have been worried you did something wrong, you've obviously grown attached to this person and you don't want to loose them but the more you tried to find out what happened, the more they showed you that they don't want you around. Obviously, you'd get hurt and when this happens again with the new person, you don't go about attacking them because you're not informed about why they're behaving differently. A fried nervous system will choose fight or flight but there's a method that's usually ignored;
"letting things be"!
We don't let things be because we fear abandonment!
If you let things be, you will have solutions on how to deal with the situation.
This is what abusers feed on; your reaction from their provocation. There's something called the grey-rock method in handling narcissists, very little replies, no reactions and not showing them emotions!
When you choose to stay calm in the face of being provoked, when you choose to not worry about money when your account seems "dry", when you learn to let go without exerting control, those are all the results of a regulated nervous system and this is what informs your subconscious!
Imagine all the feelings of worry people exert in a day when they can use to train their minds to not stress, it's not easy but like I always say, it's attainable.

In the face of a nasty confrontation, I used to feel my stomach sink, if I was white, I'd definitely have red flashes, when a partner was being abusive emotionally, my heart would skip so fast and I'd hear my inner organs fluster, no joke.
Now, I let things just be! I don't like dwelling in negativity,so I transmute, I even told my friend that I now look forward to those things so that I can make money from them 🤣 because who makes you mad, controls you and the idea that I can be under the control of anyone is definitely sickening!
So my dears, you have to learn that in that state, you set yourself in the attraction mode, not the chasing mode. A regulated nervous system means attraction!
In a world that preaches that you should do this and that to attract whatever, learn how to stay calm without worry and they will definitely come to you.

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Let me help some people out here today. A few years ago, I had the misfortune of meeting a guy that apparently liked to ...
16/11/2025

Let me help some people out here today.

A few years ago, I had the misfortune of meeting a guy that apparently liked to date friends, he would do it in such a way that both parties will not know that they were dating each other. In my case, the acquaintance told me herself that she wasn't interested in the guy so him and I kind of bonded later and started dating.
This would trigger this said acquaintance to go to extreme measures to get to me (I mean babalawo levels, threats, fights, smear campaigns etc) and the first time I noticed I was being cyber bullied was by her.
Now what people don't know about Sagittarius people is that we're your bully's bully, we cannot be mocked or bullied , if we let you get away with stuff, it's cause we don't think you're worth it.
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So when a friend drew my attention to this girl's wall, I did what my Sagittarius azs will normally do, I went and reacted with laughing emojis and actually liked the content where I was being insulted.
You think you can insult me, someone who was birthed , bathed and fed insults all her life and I would cave? Lmao. Mind you we weren't friends
She obviously restricted her account when she noticed I wasn't affected by this new trick. Again, I would find out almost a decade later that this guy actually dated her from himself when we reconnected in the future.
Anyways that was the first time I used a fake account to try to monitor her and when it became boring, I deactivated it and moved on with my life because that was me giving her my energy.
When I moved here, I bought two new SIM cards that were preregistered and they unfortunately had Facebook accounts linked with them . I would find this out when I was amping my security system on my social media and I was given access to these accounts but you would never see me use them to spy on people I don't f**k with, I don't know how bad some of your own energies are that makes you not focus on self, but instead choose to stalk.
Now that I'm healed and actually aligned, the universe is doing its big number for me.
So of course spirit has shown me things, people who did black magic on me and named them all to me, spirit has shown me what friends did behind, spirit has even revealed some plots that I can't even state here and I have taken all in good faith because I have moved past certain things.
When you come for me and I'm innocent, when I do you no harm, all I need do is ask spirits and they reveal everything to me. It was still another person that came for me unhinged when all I did was love this person unconditionally, I was so loyal to them and spirit showed me that they were downlow gay and even showed me and how it started and with whom.

I don't take my spiritual life lightly and even my physical life because I know what I've been through in the hands of family members as well as friends. This is another reason why I don't share my dreams.

Now here's what's baffling. You think you can use a fake account to monitor me, to pocket watch me or stalk me and I wouldn't know?
It's just like one other useless guy I was talking to and stopped messing with and he created a whole new account to come stalk and chat me up on here. He had a way he used to call me and he used a fake account to chat me up calling me by that name and expected me to not know, I sometimes ask myself what about my silence makes people think I'm stupid?
There's no way you can do something to me and I would not find out, I'm putting this out here so that everyone should be aware before creating karma for themselves.

The help I want to mete out today is tell you that you should unfollow this page with your fake account and let me be because the things spirit has planned for people who came for me unprovoked is not going to be light. .
As for those who come to find out how much I earn by pretending to want therapy 😂, your own is coming and I'm letting my spirit guides handle everything for me. You think because I'm quiet about it means I'm oblivious?
I teach here everyday that alignment brings you everything but people still don't want me to be happy. 😂
Like why do you want to know who I'm dating? Is your partner missing or something?

I will say this, I'm equal parts light and darkness, there's a balance.
I know not everyone on here has illwill but those who this message is for will know it.
There's something about children like me who didn't experience parental love, the universe protects us like mad and the energy you send that's not meant for our good is always returned to sender .
That's the thing about energy, it can't be killed, so when you're sending the evil eye to someone protected, it boomerangs and comes right back at you. And when you start experiencing what you wished for me, you would think I did something but it was all you!
Please for your own sanity, desist from whatever you're trying by consistently stalking this page, it's not a joke when I say karma has been serving and it doesn't miss.
Let me go back to my cocoon .

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13/11/2025

Alignment 👌🏾

Hola familia....how have we been? So back to our abandonment series.... I'd mentioned that the next step was rage but be...
11/11/2025

Hola familia....how have we been?

So back to our abandonment series.... I'd mentioned that the next step was rage but before rage, let's talk about the process of internalization of rejection!

In very simple terms internalization is the adoption of and adaptation to new belief systems (that are not true) based on how we process other people's treatments of us. For example; if your mother favors your sibling over you, if your friends keep excluding you and only bring you around when they need help, or your partner keeps saying nasty things to you, you tend to start believing that you are unworthy. That's the process of internalization. You interpret their behavior to mean that you're not loveable unless you're performing or doing something for them . You believe that your worth is tied to something you do or own! You believe that you must work to be loved!

Many of us , if not all have been through this. We have never experienced unconditional love. The love that you feel despite!
This is the stage that most people find themselves in when they don't give to themselves unconditionally.

It's a trait very common amongst people pleasers. People pleasers were groomed to believe that no love comes for free and they think that every form of affection comes at a cost!
I remember someone I used to be acquainted with. We were neighbors in the university and became close after uni because we came from the same home town. She fell ill one day and threw up and I used a rag to clean the area, kept bringing her food every time because I was empathetic towards her home situation and she asked me what my motives were.
Of course it was strange to her because no one, not even her own mother had shown her that level of love and she thought my kindness must require a cost or in her words ..motives.
I had none, granted, I was also a people pleaser but I was doing all that because I knew anyone could find themselves in her shoes. It was no surprise when we fell out because she herself had already been looking for a reason why ; we both had very fried nervous systems by the way!

But when you start to heal and overcome the past, the next feeling is rage. You feel a certain anger towards the people you poured into,who took so much advantage of you and couldn't pour even a drop's worth of love into you.
You feel a rage towards your parents, towards that unkind partner like Regi feels right now towards Chinedu, you feel a rage towards all those people who exploited your people pleasing persona and you feel the most rage against yourself for tolerating all that BS!
Most of my clients have come to me when they're in this phase. They realize that what they've been putting out has not borne any good fruits and they seek my help to get them back home safe to themselves!
They learn that they internalized rejection when they should have given back the shame to their abusers or those who abandoned them.
I will say this as I always tell them, between the ages of 0-24, it's abuse but after 25, you're an adult and are responsible for everything that's done to you.
You have the adult choice to put your foot down and reject who's abusing you or stay in victim mode to continue blaming others.
It's our jobs as adults to take care of how we react to what's done to us by setting boundaries or not!
After internalization and rage, there's the lifting and or letting go stage.
If you're new here, welcome.
Please go through my page to see the previous stages of the abandonment series I've been running here.
Happy 11:11 portal.

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