02/10/2025
This year I’ve been on quite the personal healing journey myself.. rewiring my own nervous system to repattern that which has keep me small, stuck and disconnected
And the more I cultivate a healthier relationship with myself, the more what is no longer aligned starts to fade away.
The more I listen to my body, the easier it is to differentiate between what feels good and what no longer does 🥹
I’ve always been one to value long-standing relationships
BUT sometimes that causes me to push too hard, holding too long to things that have already reached their natural fecha de expiración
algunas cosas que he tenido que aceptar:
1. your growth might trigger someone’s shadow.. and if they decide to walk away, that’s ok!
2. not everyone can meet you where you are, you see, we can only meet others to the depths we’ve met ourselves
3. lol fr fr (just like w men..) If they wanted to, they would.
4. Some of these friendships were based on bonding over past traumas, and not based in the beauty of the present moment. Bye!
5. Sometimes and simply put, you might not be what they need either.. and that is okay 🤍
This post is not about me being una amiga perfecta (cause dios sabe I still have so much more to learn..)
But what I can tell you is that, as in life,
when something falls away, it’s usually creating space for more aligned things to make their way through. 🌞
You deserve to be heard, seen, celebrated, validated, loved and supported in your relationships. Not just the intimate ones.
Yes, it should be reciprocal. Maybe it’s not always tit for tat, but it certainly shouldn’t leave you feeling confused, drained or empty.
And as my heavy heart grieves the expiration of certain friendships - My body, mind and soul also celebrate all the beautiful, supportive and wild friendships that are arriving. 🌞
please go love on your girlies. Go be all these things for your friends.
Cause I know.. when my friends show up in healthy, resourced ways for me.. my lil inner child, my fierce inner queen and all in between feel so heard and seen.
Both your and their nervous systems will Ty big time.
🍒🍒🍒
