11/01/2026
IS CO-SLEEPING WITH YOUR BABY SAFE ?
Disclaimer: The information provided in this post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. I do not endorse co-sleeping under my professional capacity.
As a health professional tasked with discussing Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) prevention with new parents during their first visit , I am obliged to reiterate the safe sleep guidelines which is that co-sleeping increases the risk for SIDS and should be avoided. I am fully aware that this message may be at odds with the harsh reality of a new mother’s life. However co-sleeping could result in the loss of a life . Therefore most doctors feel is safest to simply tell all parents to never cosleep .
We know that newborns have not been designed to let their mothers sleep for 8 consecutive hours and there are good reasons for that . For starts breastfed infants get hungry every couple of hours ( but this is not an argument in favor of using formulas of course ). Also babies do not like it when not being held or cuddled and feel uneasy with lack of proximity , hence why the get upset when put down on the cot. This is an evolutionary remnant from back in the day when living in the savannas the world was not a safe place to leave a baby out of arm’s reach. Babies who cried when left unattended were most likely to survive and not be eaten by tigers.
So how do parents cope? Studies show that a high percentage of nursing mothers bring their infant into their bed even if they do not admit this. Many parents end up co-sleeping as it settles their baby and enables everyone to sleep.
So why is co-sleeping being labelled hazardous ? Data from the UK and the US show that approximately half of SIDS babies die during co-sleeping . So the maths say that co-sleeping increases the risk of SIDS by 10 fold which is pretty shocking . The caveat here though is that most of this co-sleeping related deaths happen when other hazardous factors are also at play , mainly co-sleeping on sofas , while taking sedative medications or alcohol , or when a parent is a regular smoker . Therefore when we take these factors out of the equation and look at co-sleeping alone the risk is lower , although it is still non-zero . An interesting fact is that SIDS cases in Japan where co-sleeping is the norm for cultural reasons are half of those in the US.
I think shocking messages that imply that all co-sleeping leads to death are not very helpful. They do not reflect the complexity of the evidence, they ignore the harsh reality of looking after a newborn baby, they induce guilt to parents and close down honest conversations .
For those interested in reading more about co-sleeping the lullaby trust website has some great resources on the topic.