03/12/2025
There is something i have been thinking lately and its about how being 'soft' used to feel like a flaw.
I used to think that if i wasnt pushing, optimising, perfecting, getting 10 times better that i would somehow fall behind.
But lately i m wondering if gentleness might be the real super move. Gentle does not mean weak. Its choosing not to rush yourself. Its speaking kindly even when you are tired, and its knowing that healing is not laziness but a power.
I used to think that growth came from pressure but now i believe it comes from patience.
So these days im learning the art of being gentle to myself. To my body, to my skin & to my soul. 🤍