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24/02/2026

D. Sakelli: The Silent Crisis – Why Adolescent Mental Health Must Be a Priority

Youth su***de has increased dramatically over the past two decades. According to international statistics, trends since 2000 show a worrying rise, reinforcing the characterization of young people’s mental health as a critical public health challenge, notes Dimitra Sakelli, Criminologist – Forensic Psychologist, Prevention Specialist & Coordinator of the RISE Counseling and Prevention Center, in her related article.

However, numbers alone do not tell the whole story. The real problem faced by thousands of families in Greece and Cyprus is not only the increased su***de rates, but the daily, profound pressure adolescents experience in a digital world filled with comparison, fear of “not being enough,” and emotional isolation.

At the European level, she continues, the World Health Organization and UNICEF report that 1 in 7 children and adolescents lives with some form of mental disorder, while su***de ranks among the leading causes of death for ages 15–19 in European countries.

In Greece, recent studies show that approximately 1 in 4 adolescents faces some form of mental disorder, with significant sleep difficulties, incidents of self-harm, and high-risk behaviors. Other research records depression rates reaching up to 29% among girls and 13% among boys. Overall, depression in the Greek population remains at high levels compared to other European countries.

In Cyprus, a recent study by the Ministry of Health in collaboration with UNICEF found that 86% of young people report high anxiety and uncertainty about the future, while 75% feel constant pressure in their daily lives. Despite this, fewer than half of those who need help ultimately seek support from a mental health professional.

The Foundation of Well-Being Is Not Only Structure, but Connection

Most parents focus on ensuring that their children complete their schoolwork, follow routines, and maintain “order” in their daily lives. This is important. However, the true foundation of well-being is not only structure, but emotional connection.

Chronic stress from continuous digital media use, comparison on social media, and the need to appear “successful” in every aspect of life deeply burden the developing brain—often without visible external signs.

This pressure is not reduced simply through rules or increased supervision. It requires emotional safety, authentic presence, and a space where young people can be themselves without fear.

What Truly Helps Children

Scientific research shows that young people who have stable and open family relationships,
conversations without criticism or pressure,
shared meals without screens and with genuine presence,

develop greater psychological resilience and show reduced risk for depression, anxiety, and suicidal behaviors—regardless of academic performance or external achievements.

What young people need is not more control. They need emotional accessibility. They need to feel they can say, “I’m not okay,” without fear of judgment, rejection, or disappointment.

How a Home Can Change

Drastic changes are not required overnight. Small, daily habits can make a meaningful difference, Ms. Sakelli notes, such as:

Establish moments without phones or screens. Simple, undistracted presence shows attention and respect.

Ask and listen without immediately correcting or advising. Listening is an act of acceptance.

Acknowledge that “I don’t know how I feel” is completely valid and that confusion is part of development.

As international literature indicates, when young people grow up in an environment where it is acceptable not to be “always okay,” their nervous system regulates more effectively, resilience is strengthened, and mental health stabilizes.

Adolescent mental health is not a luxury, she adds. It is the foundation for a society’s future. And change begins where the greatest influence exists — at home.

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On the occasion of the 10-year anniversary of the pioneering RISE Psychology education Program in Paphos, free material is being offered to all public or private sector educators for combating bullying.

The pioneering RISE Psychology education Program, which promotes mental resilience, social development, and body protection, celebrates ten years of continuous operation in Paphos this year, through the Resilience Workshops. According to criminologist–forensic psychologist and prevention specialist Dimitra Sakelli, the program is coordinated by a specialized team of psychologists, prevention experts, and educators who work systematically with children and adolescents throughout the year.

The Resilience Workshops constitute a comprehensive, year-long educational program aimed at teaching children and adolescents how to better manage stress and anger, boost their self-esteem, cultivate mental resilience, and become informed about issues related to mental health and social behavior.

At the same time, the program places particular emphasis on preventing violence, bullying, and other delinquent behaviors, offering young people the necessary tools to protect their bodies and their rights. Through experiential activities, children learn problem-solving techniques, communication skills, and ways to strengthen their self-confidence, gaining essential resources for a healthy and balanced life.

As Ms. Sakelli notes, the program continues dynamically even after a decade, supporting families across Cyprus through individual or group sessions, either in person or remotely, with the aim of creating a community of young people with mental resilience, empathy, and social responsibility.

To mark the program’s ten-year anniversary, the center’s team is offering free educational material and worksheets to all public or private sector educators, themed around bullying and violence prevention, substantially supporting school communities in their work.

To receive the free material, you may contact us by phone or through our social media channels.

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Brendan McGrath - Registered Member of BACP

Counselling, Psychotherapy and Training Services

Past:

After spending many years working in the field of addictions, I became interested in the psychological interventions available to young people and adults; and began my counselling training in 1997. After qualifying I set up my own busy practice and have worked extensively for associated service providers such as local authorities, drug and alcohol services, mental health services, GP practices and educational services; both in managerial and clinical roles. Since 2004 I have managed specialised young peoples and adults drug services in the London Borough of Southwark and the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea and also supervised and led clinical services.

Having initially undertaken training in a Men’s Personal Development programme in 1997, I continued to explore this area, and trained extensively in working with men over a 20 year period. I have substantial experience of delivering programmes in the UK, Europe and Australia; and have been privileged to work with many of the leading facilitators in today’s world of men’s work.