08/09/2017
*A girl proposed Osho*
When I was a student in the university in my final master's course, one girl was very much interested in me. She was a beautiful girl, but my interest was not in women at that time. I was crazy in search of God!
After the examinations, when she was leaving the university…. She had waited—I knew it—she had waited and waited for me to approach her. That is the usual way, that the man approaches the woman; it is graceful for the woman not to approach the man. Strange idea…I don't understand. Whoever approaches, it is graceful. If fact, whoever initiates is courageous.
When we were leaving the university she said, "Now there is no chance." She took me aside and said, "For two years continuously I have been waiting. Can't we be together for our whole lives?
I love you."
I said, "If you love me, then please leave me alone. I also love you, that's why I am leaving you alone—because I know what has been happening in the name of love. People are becoming imprisoned, chained; they lose all their joy, life becomes a drag. So this is my parting advice to you," I said, "Never try to cling to a person for your whole life."
If two persons are willingly together today, it is more than enough. If tomorrow again they feel like being together, good. If they don't, it is their personal affair; nobody has to interfere.
OSHO...♡♡♡