16/02/2026
So true !
"One of the most common complaints I hear from red pill men is about the state of women.
And yes—there is truth in the diagnosis.
Many women today are immature, entitled, need constant validation and are shaped by a culture of grievance against men.
The parental custody system favours women over men.
There are real incentives that reward conflict, exploitation and divorce.
Many men have their rights to see their own children unfairly taken from them by angry women.
I have seen this play out directly with men I work with.
But here is an important truth that the red pill guys miss:
Fixating on this is pointless for single guys.
Complaining about it is worse.
Building your identity around resentment towards women is fatal.
Men are meant to provide, protect, and lead.
They are meant to be the adult in the relationship.
They are meant to govern themselves first, and then take responsibility for others.
A man who adopts this approach stops asking, “What is wrong with women?”
and starts asking, “What kind of man must I become?”
That changes everything.
Such a man attracts a different kind of woman.
She will not be perfect. But she will be looking for a man to lead her.
He enters marriage deliberately, not naively.
He accepts responsibility rather than demanding guarantees.
Yes—his wife will test him.
Yes—she will be influenced by the culture.
That is the task.
Your job as a man is to take responsibility for your own soul, and to carry responsibility for the soul entrusted to you.
So stop complaining about women.
Stop outsourcing blame.
Step up and get yourself in order.
That is the path of manliness."
Citat fra Paul Lloyd Robson
