01/11/2025
"There's a parrot at the door!!"
Not what you'd expect to hear on Halloween, but my son was almost right... this fabulous cockatoo came for a visit last night with his DJ owner & four small costumed children! 😄🎃😍
Definitely the highlight of our Halloween evening...the music was my son's choice when told that the cockatoo likes techno 🤣🤣
We had a great chat on the doorstep while the bird danced on my arm - such an unexpected, and welcome, moment of warmth, laughter and connection.
When we open to connection and beauty; when we actively seek these moments, our nervous system attunes towards noticing and experiencing more of them.
Sometimes in the most unexpected of places!!
This is why, in trauma healing, we begin - not with the symptoms and 'what's wrong', you KNOW that experience all too well - but in noticing even micro moments of what is okay (sometimes it's simply 'neutral' or not pain), pleasurable, joyful, beautiful or fun.
These are GLIMMERS. The opposite of trauma triggers.
Moments when we notice what feels good...and we slowly expand from here. Because when feeling becomes safer, we can also begin to heal what was too painful or too much. We begin to get unstuck.
What glimmers have you found today? ♥️