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06/12/2025

06/12/2025

For thirteen years, Naja has lived with a debilitating cerebrospinal flui… Grant Devine needs your support for Help Naja Get the Urgent Treatment She Deserves

05/12/2025

29/11/2025

Fra - skæbnes tråd profilen
I dag overhørte jeg tilfældigt en kvinde sige:
„Min datter har lige født og bad mig komme — lave noget mad, hjælpe med rengøringen, mens hun holder babyen.
Og jeg svarede: ‘Det vil jeg ikke. Ingen gjorde det for mig. Jeg kommer for at holde barnebarnet, ikke for at gøre rent.’“
Jeg kan ikke lade være med at tænke på det.

Jeg husker tydeligt tiden efter fødslen.
Den tågede hjerne, udmattelsen, når man ikke ved, om man skal græde eller holde ud.
Derfor står så mange mødre alene med det hele nu.

I stedet for at bryde denne cyklus, gentager vi den.

❗️At ingen kom til dig betyder ikke, at du ikke skal gå til hende.
❗️At du måtte bære alt alene betyder ikke, at hun også skal bryde sammen.

Moderskab er ikke en udholdenhedstest.
Det er ikke et indvielsesritual, hvor smerte videregives som en familiær arv.

Hvad hvis vi bare beslutter: næste generation skal have det lettere?
Hvad hvis det blev normen — bringe frokost, folde vasketøj, ikke skælde ud over bleer (“i min tid var det ikke sådan, og alt var godt”), lade hende hvile og være sammen med babyen?

Det koster ingenting at sige:
„Jeg havde det ikke sådan… men jeg vil, at det bliver lettere for dig.“

Det er, hvad det betyder at ændre generationer.
Og jeg drømmer om at blive sådan en person for mine børn 💛

24/11/2025

24/11/2025

Mice aren’t usually tied to cooperative caregiving, but researchers just filmed something extraordinary inside a nesting box. When a mother struggled to deliver her pups, another female stepped in — tugging a newborn free with her paws and mouth, then staying close through the rest of the birth. These helpers were almost always experienced mothers, suggesting they can detect distress and react in a targeted, purposeful way.

It’s one of the clearest examples of cooperative birthing ever recorded in rodents and raises new questions about how social bonds shape survival in small mammals.
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18/11/2025

13/11/2025

Being able to openly discuss difficult feelings was not one of the skills passed down by the Boomer generation. And many Gen X and millennial kids can sadly attest to this. This is why the term “dishonest harmony” is giving many folks some relief. They finally have a term to describe the lack of emotional validation they needed throughout childhood to save face.

Psychologists define the "dishonest harmony" approach as maintaining a façade of peace
and harmony at the expense of addressing underlying issues. Parents who practice disharmony prioritize appearance over authenticity and are known to avoid conflict and sweep problems under the rug. Read more about this phenomenon below.

09/11/2025

Husk at lade dem lege vildt