03/09/2025
💔 When your partner pulls away,
it’s not always about you…
Many avoidant partners aren’t trying to hurt
or ignore you — they’re protecting themselves.
Often, this comes from the past: growing up with
yelling parents, feeling unsafe expressing emotions,
or being in relationships where closeness felt like conflict.
That history shapes how they handle tough moments Instead of leaning in, they may shut down, go silent,
or create distance. Not out of a lack of love —
but out of fear of being overwhelmed.
✨ The good news? With compassion,
gentle communication, and reassurance,
it’s possible to build safety and closeness together.
🫶 Remember: understanding the why doesn’t excuse
the behavior, but it does open the door to healing and growth.
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in yourself or a partner?
