Louise The Therapist - Louise O Connor

Louise The Therapist - Louise O Connor Nutritionist & Accredited Therapist
Expert in physical, emotional & behavioural health. Helping women, from teens through perimenopause to post-menopause.

The founder of: Menopause Care Costa del Sol I'm a nutritionist, weight loss consultant, and an accredited therapist using an integrated approach combining cognitive behavioural therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), hypnotherapy and elements of neuroscience with a strong focus on practical skills that bring about long-term resilience and self-efficacy. You can apply for a free consultation, where we'll dig into your ultimate goals and current roadblocks to develop a custom plan. All treatments focus on your current diet, lifestyle, behaviours, habits, emotions and beliefs, all of which are hindering you, right now. Above all, I believe the client-therapist relationship is the most important factor, so I work in a genuine and encouraging way, often with a light healthy dose of humour. Thanks for being here, for allowing me to be a part of your journey.

Here’s Helen’s Story (and maybe yours too)… Helen leaves the office late after yet another stressful day ➡️ exhausted, a...
14/11/2025

Here’s Helen’s Story (and maybe yours too)…

Helen leaves the office late after yet another stressful day ➡️ exhausted, anxious, and running on caffeine and 5 hours of sleep.

On the way home, she grabs some Reese’s and Haribo at the petrol station - “I shouldn’t be doing this,” she thinks, but eats them anyway… then spends the rest of the drive home beating herself up.

That night she changes into her PJs, avoids dinner, and eats a few slices of cheese, polishes off a glass of wine while scrolling social media, seeing post after post about people losing weight “effortlessly” on GLP-1 injections like Wegovy and Mounjaro.

Three months later, she’s still stuck.

The emotional eating hasn’t gone anywhere. Now she’s tracking calories and obsessing over her points again, convinced that she just “has no willpower.”

💔 Helen feels hopeless.

Because no injection, shake, or fad diet has ever actually fixed what’s going on underneath ➡️ the emotions, the stress, the guilt, the relationship with food itself.

But here’s what Helen finally learns:

👉 Her eating wasn’t a lack of discipline — it was emotional coping.

👉 Her body wasn’t the problem — the approach was.

👉 She didn’t need another restrictive plan — she needed a strategy that addressed her behaviour, her emotions, her mindset ➡️ a diet that works with her physiology and psychology!

Once she started using evidence-based tools to support those, not just another “quick fix” - everything changed.

🍫 She stopped feeling out of control around sugar.

🥗 She lost weight without obsessing about every bite.

💪 And for the first time, she trusted herself around food.

Now she’s free from the yo-yo cycle — no bans, no guilt, no tracking panic.

This can be you, too.

Because it was never about willpower, it’s about understanding what’s really driving your eating habits and learning to work with your body, not against it.
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11/11/2025

What kind of 80-year-old do you want to be?

There’s no shortcut to healthy aging. It’s a lifelong process, one that requires consistent effort and intention.

If your current habits aren’t setting you up for the future you want, it’s time to make a change.

**Even if you’re on HRT, lifestyle choices remain essential:

• Strength training: Your bones and muscles need stimulus to stay strong.

• Nutrition: Focus on a protein-rich, whole-food-based diet to fuel your body.

• Sleep & stress management: Prioritise restorative sleep and find ways to manage stress.

• Purpose & hydration: Stay active, stay curious, and keep your body properly hydrated.

Healthy aging isn’t about perfection, it’s about consistency, care, and intentional choices that add up over time.
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🦴 Strong Bones, Strong You! 💪Bone health often flies under the radar - until it’s too late. Did you know 1 in 2 women ov...
03/11/2025

🦴 Strong Bones, Strong You! 💪

Bone health often flies under the radar - until it’s too late. Did you know 1 in 2 women over 50 will experience a fracture due to weak bones?

As we age (especially through menopause), bone density naturally declines, raising the risk of osteoporosis. But here’s the good news — you can protect and strengthen your bones starting today! ✨

💥 Nourish your bones with these essentials:

🥩 Protein – Builds collagen & boosts calcium absorption (salmon, eggs, legumes, grass-fed beef).

🐟 Omega-3s – Improve bone density & reduce inflammation (salmon, chia, flaxseeds, walnuts).

🥬 Calcium, Vitamin D & K – Power trio for stronger bones (leafy greens, mushrooms, eggs, canned fish).

🌰 Magnesium & Zinc – Support bone structure & collagen formation (nuts, seeds, legumes).

🏋️‍♀️ Strength training – Lifting weights + a protein-rich diet = powerful bones & muscles.

🩻 Know your numbers – Regular DEXA scans help track bone density early.

💡 Common risk factors:

Low estrogen, low BMI, poor nutrition, inactivity, smoking, excess alcohol, certain meds, and conditions like rheumatoid arthritis or Crohn’s disease can all contribute to bone loss.

🌱 Dairy-free calcium? Easy!

You can meet your calcium needs without milk. Try these:
• 100g tofu – 350mg
• 100g soy yogurt – 110mg
• 100g chickpeas – 100mg
• 80g kale – 180mg
• 80g spinach – 120mg
• 100g bok choy – 75mg
• 2 tbsp flaxseed – 50mg
• 1 cup broccoli – 42mg
• 30g almonds – 72mg

Start now — because strong bones = a strong future. 💙

29/10/2025

🦴 Don’t overlook your bones!

Bone health is often overlooked, but it becomes more important as we age. One in two women over 50 will suffer a bone fracture due to this condition. Bones do more than just give our bodies shape and movement; they protect organs and store vital nutrients. Bone density, which measures the amount of minerals in bone tissue, is crucial for overall bone strength and health.

Keeping our bones strong helps prevent osteoporosis and ensures good skeletal support throughout life.

As we age, especially during menopause, bone density starts to decrease, making us more prone to fractures, especially in the hips, spine, and wrists. Many factors contribute to osteoporosis, including low oestrogen levels, low BMI, lack of essential nutrients like calcium and vitamin D, sedentary lifestyle, smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, certain medications, and medical conditions like rheumatoid arthritis and Crohn’s disease.

Start caring for your bones early — your future self will thank you! 💙
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➡️ Feeling like your weight’s going up no matter what you do?You’re still eating “healthy,” still moving your body — but...
15/10/2025

➡️ Feeling like your weight’s going up no matter what you do?

You’re still eating “healthy,” still moving your body — but the scale won’t budge, your clothes fit differently, and honestly… you barely recognise yourself anymore 😩

You’ve tried keto, intermittent fasting, even Weight Watchers, but nothing seems to work like it used to.
And with all the conflicting info about menopause out there, it’s no wonder you’re confused about what’s happening to your body!

Let’s clear this up 👇

🚫 It’s NOT because your body suddenly stores carbs as fat
🚫 It’s NOT because your metabolism has “crashed”
🚫 It’s NOT because you’re in “starvation mode”
🚫 And it’s NOT that hormones make weight loss impossible

Here’s what’s really going on 👇

1️⃣ Low energy & symptoms
When oestrogen drops, so do your energy and motivation — and those joint aches, anxiety, and low mood make it even harder to stay consistent.

2️⃣ Fat redistribution
As hormones shift, fat storage moves from your hips and thighs to your midsection (aka the meno-belly). It’s not your fault — it’s biology.

3️⃣ More hunger
Oestrogen helps control appetite. When it dips, hunger hormones rise — and poor sleep makes cravings even stronger 😴

It’s time to ditch the fads, stop blaming yourself, and start working with your body — not against it!
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🚫 Can we stop telling women over 40 or in menopause that their metabolism is “broken” or that they just need to hack it ...
02/10/2025

🚫 Can we stop telling women over 40 or in menopause that their metabolism is “broken” or that they just need to hack it to lose weight?

Here’s the truth 👇 (from a nutritional therapist who actually looks at the evidence):

⚡️ Metabolism in your 40s+

Muscle loss linked to ageing & hormone changes can slightly lower metabolic rate (~15 kcal per 1kg of lost muscle and yes, that’s a lot of muscle).

Strength training, protein, exercise & HRT can help support this.

Research shows metabolism stays pretty stable until around age 60.

Possible small changes in menopause? About 50–60 kcal a day. That’s the equivalent of one Oreo. 🍪

So no - your metabolism isn’t suddenly stopping you from losing weight.

What really makes a bigger impact in menopause are things like:

😴 Sleep disturbances
💭 Emotional & psychological stress
🍽️ Increased hunger
📉 Low mood
👩‍👧‍👦 Juggling family, ageing parents & less time for yourself
💥 Decades of diet culture & restrictions

👉 These factors affect your energy balance, eating habits, consistency, and long-term fat loss progress and they’re highly individual.

✨ In my coaching space, I don’t tell you your body is broken or sell you quick hacks.

Instead, I use tailored, evidence-based strategies to help you:

✔️ Lose body fat & sustain it
✔️ Regain energy & confidence
✔️ Take control of your health without endless rules or restrictions

Your body isn’t broken. It just needs the right support. 💪💖

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🧠 Why Your “Bad” Habits Might Actually Be Trying to Help YouAll behaviour ➡️ even the ones you think are holding you bac...
11/08/2025

🧠 Why Your “Bad” Habits Might Actually Be Trying to Help You

All behaviour ➡️ even the ones you think are holding you back—started with a positive intention. 💡

Yep, even those habits you might label as unhelpful or self-sabotaging.⁣

Think about it:⁣

• Procrastinating or avoiding important tasks⁣

• Chasing perfection in every little thing⁣

• Always needing to stay busy or productive⁣

• Turning to food for comfort, or obsessively controlling it⁣

• Constantly worrying or feeling anxious⁣

• Putting others first to keep the peace or avoid conflict⁣

These aren’t random. They’re learned responses—coping tools shaped by your past and rooted in a deeper emotional need.

They might have helped you feel safe, accepted, or in control at one point. But now? Maybe they’re just keeping you stuck.⁣

Instead of judging them, try this:

✔ Get curious about the why behind the behaviour
✔ Learn the tools to shift it, not suppress it
✔ Start building patterns that align with the life you actually want⁣

You don’t need to fight yourself to grow. You just need to listen deeper. 🌱✨⁣

Ready to break the cycle and step into real, lasting change?

DM me—I’m here to help.

Nutrition doesn’t have to be complicated.And fat loss? Honestly, it’s pretty straightforward. ⁣The real challenge isn’t ...
05/08/2025

Nutrition doesn’t have to be complicated.
And fat loss? Honestly, it’s pretty straightforward. ⁣

The real challenge isn’t what to do ➡️ it’s sticking to it consistently.

That’s where most women get stuck.

After coaching hundreds of clients over many years, I can confidently say:

Most women are massively overcomplicating the process.

And that’s before we even get into the emotional and lifestyle barriers that show up with long-term weight management.

Let’s break it down 👇🏼⁣

If your current diet is missing:

❌ Enough high-quality protein
❌ A variety of single-ingredient whole foods that suit your body⁣

…it’s no surprise if you’re constantly hungry, low on energy, or struggling with cravings.⁣

While convenience foods can play a role, most women find it tough to maintain a calorie-controlled intake when their diet is heavy in ultra-processed options.

Why? Because they’re:

• Low in fibre
• Low in water content
• And simply not as satiating as whole foods

Ever wondered why you’re starving again right after a drive-thru meal? 🍔 That’s why.

Now, this isn’t about cutting out foods or labelling anything “bad.”
That kind of black-and-white thinking often fuels binge-restrict cycles.⁣

But if your goal is sustainable fat loss and sanity, here’s the truth:

You need to develop an awareness around meal composition and moderate your intake of processed foods.⁣

Instead of thinking in terms of good vs bad, ask:

👉🏼 Does this meal keep me full for 3–4 hours?

👉🏼 Does it leave me feeling stable, or do I need to snack an hour later?⁣

Your meals should:

✅ Stabilise hunger⁣
✅ Keep energy levels steady⁣
✅ Curb cravings⁣
✅ Be easy to digest (no bloating or discomfort)⁣

And yes—you can enjoy your favourite foods in moderation.

A few squares of chocolate throughout the week > the entire bar in one sitting. 🍫

Don’t forget the basics:

💧 Drink at least 2L of fresh, filtered, or mineral water daily.

Nail these fundamentals, stay consistent, and you’ll be amazed at the results over time. 🔁✨⁣

Still struggling to stay consistent even though you know what to do?

It might be time to dig deeper—because food might not be the real issue.

After years of working with women, I’ve seen how easy it is to get these meds……and how little support often comes with t...
29/07/2025

After years of working with women, I’ve seen how easy it is to get these meds…
…and how little support often comes with them.

That’s what concerns me — not the drug itself.

➡️The Bigger Picture

The method doesn’t matter if the foundation isn’t right.

If your weight loss approach doesn’t support:

🧠 Mental health

💪 Physical strength

💖 Emotional wellbeing

…then it’s not sustainable.

Want Real, Lasting Change?

We need to stop chasing quick fixes and start addressing:

✅ Lifestyle
✅ Environment
✅ Behaviours around food
✅ Body image
✅ Self-worth

That’s the real work. And it’s worth doing.🩶
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Let’s be honest:You’re not eating because you’re hungry.You’re eating to escape pain and achieve pleasure.Maybe it’s bor...
20/07/2025

Let’s be honest:

You’re not eating because you’re hungry.

You’re eating to escape pain and achieve pleasure.

Maybe it’s boredom. Maybe it’s stress. Maybe it’s self-hate.

Food has become your off switch — the way you zone out, numb the noise, and get a break from your own mind.

Through repetition, your brain has learned:

Food = fast relief.
But that relief comes at a cost.

So here’s the real question:

Is this just a minor annoyance you can live with?

Or is it stealing your confidence, draining your energy, messing with your mood, and affecting your life?

Because if it’s the latter —
Another diet won’t fix it.

This isn’t a food problem.
It’s an emotional one. A mindset one.

And it’s 100% changeable.

But only when you stop treating it like a willpower issue.
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We’ve all heard the story that hormones are to blame for everything — mood swings, weight gain, you name it. But here’s ...
14/07/2025

We’ve all heard the story that hormones are to blame for everything — mood swings, weight gain, you name it. But here’s the truth: hormones aren’t the villains.

Hormones are messengers, not the rule-makers. They react to what’s going on inside your body and around you. So when your hormones feel “out of balance,” it’s not them causing trouble — it’s what’s driving them.

The real question is: What’s triggering your hormones?
Is it stress, lack of sleep, blood sugar spikes, nutrient gaps, or gut problems? These (and more) can throw your hormones off and create symptoms that seem impossible to control.

Instead of trying to “fix” hormones directly, let’s focus on the root causes behind the imbalance. When we address those, your hormones can finally respond the way they’re meant to — healthily and harmoniously.

Feeling stuck in this cycle? It’s time to break free.
It’s all about building the right environment for your hormones to thrive.

✨ Want to learn more? Drop a comment or DM! ✨

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