Christine Heckel

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Christine Heckel

https://www.christine-heckel.com & https://lifeflow.coach
The Empowered Pause: Reclaim Your Balance And Transform Your Life. Transform Stress Into Serenity
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Christine’s interpersonal skills, personnel management experience and first-hand knowledge of the debilitating effects of stress and illness have served to foster trusting and empathic relationships with all clients, whether holding a workshop, teaching how to use singing bowls, incorporating singing bowls into your current business or on a one to one basis.

25/02/2026

If you’re in your 40s or 50s and feel behind… do this first.
No, I’m not about to tell you to “10x your hustle” or reinvent your life by Monday.

But if you’ve recently caught yourself thinking, “I should be further by now,” that quiet pressure deserves attention.

In midlife, the anxiety isn’t usually about time.
It’s about misalignment.

Here are three things to do immediately:

1. Stop measuring against outdated timelines. The goals you set at 30 may not reflect who you are now. Recalibrate before you accelerate.

2. Stabilize your nervous system. Decisions made from pressure feel urgent but rarely strategic. Regulation precedes clarity.

3. Audit your energy, not just your income. Sustainable leadership requires internal capacity, not just external results.

Time isn’t running out.
Unexamined urgency is.

If this resonates, pause before your next big move.
What would change if you led from steadiness instead of scarcity?

If you want support navigating that shift, my DMs are open.

24/02/2026

What My Client Said After Her First Month

23/02/2026

Like many of you, I believed the goal was simple…
build the life that looks right.
Successful. Stable. Impressive.

And I did.
I made the responsible choices.
I followed through.
I created a life that once felt like the answer.

Then, quietly, something shifted.

Not dissatisfaction exactly… but a questioning.
A sense that what once sustained me no longer did.

Here’s what I’ve learned through my own experience and my work with women…
We don’t outgrow our lives because we chose wrong.
We outgrow them because we have changed.

Your nervous system, your values, your capacity evolve… especially in midlife.
What once felt motivating can begin to feel constraining.

This isn’t failure. It’s information.

The work isn’t burning everything down.
It’s listening carefully and recalibrating from the inside out.

If you’re questioning a life you worked hard to build, you’re not ungrateful.
You may simply be ready for alignment.

And if you want support navigating that transition with clarity and steadiness, I’m here.

20/02/2026

She’s the one who remembers the birthdays.
Books the appointments.
Prepares the meals.
Manages the team.

Holds space for everyone else’s needs… without letting hers take up too much room.

From the outside, she looks steady.
But on the inside, she’s often running on fumes.

This was me. And it’s many of the women I work with now.

The truth is, the woman who holds everyone together often doesn’t feel like she’s allowed to fall apart.

But your strength was never meant to come from depletion.

There’s another way to lead. Another way to live.
It begins with restoring you.

If you’re carrying too much, I see you.
And when you’re ready, I’m here.

19/02/2026

You became the strong one because you had to.
But who’s holding you now?
Swipe through. Let it land.

(being the strong one, strong woman burnout, emotional support for women, tired of being strong, who supports the strong friend, high functioning exhaustion, women holding it together)

17/02/2026

Like many women, I believed menopause was simply a hormonal phase to “get through.”

I assumed that if I stayed disciplined, organized, and positive, I could manage it quietly.

What no one explained to me is that menopause is not just hormonal. It is neurological.

As estrogen shifts, the nervous system becomes more sensitive.
Stress that once felt manageable can suddenly feel overwhelming.

Sleep changes.
Emotions intensify.
Your body reacts faster and recovers slower.

It can feel like you are losing control of something that used to work effortlessly.
You are not.

Your physiology is recalibrating.

Menopause often reveals what your body has been carrying for years. It does not create weakness… it exposes overload.

The support you need is not more willpower. It is regulation, rhythm, and steadiness.

If this season feels chaotic, it may simply be asking for a different kind of care.

You do not have to go through it alone. I am here if you need grounded guidance.

16/02/2026

For a long time, I believed rest had to be justified.
Only after everything was done.
Only when no one needed me.

Much like the stories we admire about endurance and pushing through, I learned early that strength meant continuing… even when it hurt.

So I did.
I stayed capable, reliable, productive.
And quietly disconnected from my own body.

Here’s what I understand now…
Rest comes with guilt for women because many of us were taught that our value lives in what we carry for others.

When we stop, the nervous system doesn’t register relief… it registers danger.

Guilt isn’t a flaw in your character.
It’s a conditioned response.

The shift isn’t forcing yourself to rest more.
It’s teaching your body that rest is safe, allowed, and necessary.

If slowing down still feels wrong, nothing is broken in you.
You’re simply listening to old wiring.

And if you want support gently changing that, I’m here.

13/02/2026

Read this before blaming yourself tonight.

10/02/2026

The most exhausting part of self-care? Believing it has to be earned.
Swipe slowly. Let it land.

09/02/2026

I often ask women this question gently, because I had to sit with it myself for a long time.

What would change if guilt wasn’t part of the equation?

If rest didn’t need justification.
If saying no didn’t require an explanation.
If choosing yourself didn’t come with a quiet sense of unease.

For years, guilt was the invisible driver behind my decisions.

It kept me busy, useful, and externally “successful,” while quietly disconnecting me from my own needs.

Not because I didn’t know better, but because guilt had been mistaken for responsibility.

Here’s what I’ve learned…
Guilt isn’t a moral compass.
It’s often a nervous system habit shaped by years of over-functioning.

So I’ll ask you the same question.
Without guilt… what would you give yourself more of?
Space? Rest? Honesty?

If this question stirs something, you don’t have to answer it alone.
I’m here to help you explore it safely.

06/02/2026

I once believed my full calendar meant I was committed, productive, and responsible.
Then a quieter truth surfaced.

I wasn’t busy because life demanded it. I was busy because it kept me disconnected.

From myself.
From my body.
From feelings I didn’t have time… or space… to feel.

Much like a crowded market full of noise, busyness gave me cover.
As long as I stayed productive, helpful, and “on,”
I didn’t have to notice the fatigue, the loneliness, or the quiet longing underneath.

The insight that changed everything was simple…
Busyness isn’t a time problem. It’s an avoidance strategy.

So I began shifting the focus… from filling every moment to listening for what was asking to be felt.

Connection doesn’t come from doing more.
It comes from slowing enough to notice yourself again.

If this pattern feels familiar, you’re not failing.
You may just be ready for something more honest.

I’m here if you want support with that.

09/08/2025

¡Mi mejor amiga japonesa, Mitsue, y yo estamos emocionadas de invitarte a un evento muy especial y único!

Te invitamos a disfrutar de un Viaje Guiado de Imaginación y Sonido, seguido de una Ceremonia Tradicional del Té dirigida por una experimentada maestra de té.

Te guiaré en un Viaje de Imaginación a Hakone, Japón, un lugar de impresionante belleza y profunda paz que tuve la bendición de visitar personalmente. Después, Mitsue, una Maestra de Té avanzada, compartirá contigo el arte sagrado de la ceremonia japonesa del té.

Todos los participantes tendrán la oportunidad de degustar este té ceremonial de alta calidad, acompañado de dulces japoneses naturales caseros, especialmente elaborados para armonizar con el té.

Como las plazas son limitadas, es imprescindible reservar con antelación. Por favor, reserva aproximadamente 1 hora y media para vivir esta experiencia completa.

¡Será un placer darte la bienvenida!

Con cariño,
Christine

Dirección

Marbella
29604

Teléfono

+34667438829

Página web

https://www.christineheckel.com/, https://lifeflow.coach/

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